Like sometimes, I just don't care. But, it's not like I really identify as a guy. I feel like when I don't heavily relate to my female identity, it invalidates me as a whole as a female.

Sam W wrote:That sounds like a good starting place. Is after-school not an option because of your family, or for a different reason?

Well, possibly being busy, and other reasons, or if I have to go out secretly, I'd have to be running constantly.

Is there a way you can use whatever behavioral stuff they've put in place to at least get to the point where you could ask this person out and go with them somewhere? Or are the guidelines set at your place pretty arbitrary? You could also try going out right after school. Is that an option? I'm go...

Sam W wrote:What tends to determine whether or not you can get out? Is it based on their moods or do they tie it to certain behaviors of yours?

Behavior, mainly.

Sam W wrote:Are they preventing you from dating anyone? Or are they more in the vein of not letting you go out at all right now?

I'm not sure if I'm going to be let out, all I can do is try.

Sam W wrote:Then I'd wait until you've got more availability. With not being sure you could go out, is that a schedule issue or does it have more to do with your home situation?

More possibly to do with home situation.

Gotcha. Then a good first step would be to say something like, "hey, you seem really cool, and I'd like to get to know you more. How about meeting me for coffee/ice cream/whatever this weekend?" Since it sounds like you're interested in her romantically, you'd also want to be clear that t...

Sam W wrote:Hi Kittypink,

Is this someone you know pretty well, or are at least somewhat acquainted with? Or does approaching her mean approaching someone more in the stranger category?

I'm somewhat acquainted with her, not super well, though.

My school had a GSA, but the counselors got busy and it fell through the year after it started. (That, and I'm pretty sure some of the parents of those kids in the bible club got all in a fuss because their kids got suspended for harassing the club and it's members.)

So, there's this sweet, goofy, really cute gal I'm kind of into. I don't know how to approach her about my feelings, though. Like, I don't want to make a bad first impression when I ask. I also don't want to read off as weird or creepy in a bad way. Any help?

I can't speak for everyone who put those laws in place, but a big part of it is preventing people from producing and circulating child pornography (at least as far as sexting laws focusing on young people). That's a good thing to prevent, but those laws do pose the risk of catching young people try...

for collars there are many options you could also use a choker many of those now-a-days have a bondagy feel and look as for a tail i am not sure if you would want to create a butt plug one but you could make a belt one just get some fur that matches your ears from the craft section and create a tai...

There's definitely nothing wrong with being nude in your own private space, or with whatever aspects of medical transition might feel right to you now or in the future. I know a bunch trans people who have felt much more comfortable being partially or fully nude, whether that's in sexual situations...

Do you have a sense of why that feels confusing? It sounds really reasonable to me that if you felt more comfortable with your body overall, it might feel more comfortable to be nude and have that body more visible/noticeable to you. Well, I guess it's just something my mother ingrained in me about...

Like if I actually wasn't flat and had the plumbing I want, I might be a nudist in my house. I'm confused about that?

Since corsets, when formed and laced properly, don't really cause health risk, I doubt there would be any health risks involved in wearing one during sex (other than what you mentioned, and also potential discomfort since the item isn't really designed for physical exertion). I would, however, be c...

BiKinksterBoy wrote:don't forget erotic comics!

<3Oh my god, yes!<3

(They can be quite interesting, to be honest. Sorry, about my lack of composure. )

Like actually laced tight, is there any major risks? (Other than maybe being short of breath, maybe.)

How could I do this without leaving with a heavy clean-up hassle?

Probably the best way is to use a mirror combined with a camera phone - you can take a picture of your reflection from behind and then zoom in to check that you're comfortable with how the whole area looks to others. There are also great guides written on lots of different fashion websites on how t...

That's totally normal! Labels are general categories and there's a lot of individual variety. As pan myself (yes, I'm pan and possibly demi. It's confusing in my head), I have some physical preferences though it is mostly based on personality (and all those lovely little details that take a long ti...

capablehippie wrote:My boyfriend has a great butt, it's way better than mine.

I had an ex-boyfriend who had a really nice butt.

The issue there would likely be finding one that fit you comfortably. The benefit of something like confusedone described is that you could tailor it to fit your neck so that is was comfortable and safe to wear. Okay, well, considering I'm a small bean, finding one that fits wouldn't be too hard. :...

Try googling "paracord dog collar". Obviously, you don't have to use paracord, you can use soft ropes if you prefer. But tutorials on paracord patterns are available everywhere. Since you're looking for show-y styles, this gives you the opportunity to experiment with different patterns, d...

Edith_* wrote:Mirrors and good light are good help. Also, wearing panties that do not have a thick seam is helpful too.

The seam is pretty much nonexistent, as it lays almost level with the panty itself, I just have a problem with it showing around my hips.