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- Tue May 09, 2017 8:25 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Sometimes I don't super strongly identify as a girl.
- Replies: 3
- Views: 4943
Sometimes I don't super strongly identify as a girl.
Like sometimes, I just don't care. But, it's not like I really identify as a guy. I feel like when I don't heavily relate to my female identity, it invalidates me as a whole as a female.
- Tue May 09, 2017 7:43 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
Re: I've forgot how to ask people out?
Well, possibly being busy, and other reasons, or if I have to go out secretly, I'd have to be running constantly.Sam W wrote:That sounds like a good starting place. Is after-school not an option because of your family, or for a different reason?
- Tue May 09, 2017 7:37 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
Re: I've forgot how to ask people out?
Is there a way you can use whatever behavioral stuff they've put in place to at least get to the point where you could ask this person out and go with them somewhere? Or are the guidelines set at your place pretty arbitrary? You could also try going out right after school. Is that an option? I'm go...
- Tue May 09, 2017 7:23 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
Re: I've forgot how to ask people out?
Behavior, mainly.Sam W wrote:What tends to determine whether or not you can get out? Is it based on their moods or do they tie it to certain behaviors of yours?
- Tue May 09, 2017 7:06 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
Re: I've forgot how to ask people out?
I'm not sure if I'm going to be let out, all I can do is try.Sam W wrote:Are they preventing you from dating anyone? Or are they more in the vein of not letting you go out at all right now?
- Tue May 09, 2017 6:52 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
Re: I've forgot how to ask people out?
More possibly to do with home situation.Sam W wrote:Then I'd wait until you've got more availability. With not being sure you could go out, is that a schedule issue or does it have more to do with your home situation?
- Tue May 09, 2017 6:35 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
Re: I've forgot how to ask people out?
Gotcha. Then a good first step would be to say something like, "hey, you seem really cool, and I'd like to get to know you more. How about meeting me for coffee/ice cream/whatever this weekend?" Since it sounds like you're interested in her romantically, you'd also want to be clear that t...
- Tue May 09, 2017 5:46 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
Re: I've forgot how to ask people out?
I'm somewhat acquainted with her, not super well, though.Sam W wrote:Hi Kittypink,
Is this someone you know pretty well, or are at least somewhat acquainted with? Or does approaching her mean approaching someone more in the stranger category?
- Tue May 09, 2017 5:45 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: What does (or did) your school have as far as LGBTQA spaces?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 5414
Re: What does (or did) your school have as far as LGBTQA spaces?
My school had a GSA, but the counselors got busy and it fell through the year after it started. (That, and I'm pretty sure some of the parents of those kids in the bible club got all in a fuss because their kids got suspended for harassing the club and it's members.)
- Tue May 09, 2017 4:57 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I've forgot how to ask people out?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 7173
I've forgot how to ask people out?
So, there's this sweet, goofy, really cute gal I'm kind of into. I don't know how to approach her about my feelings, though. Like, I don't want to make a bad first impression when I ask. I also don't want to read off as weird or creepy in a bad way. Any help?
- Mon May 08, 2017 5:46 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: sexting laws. why?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 4614
Re: sexting laws. why?
I can't speak for everyone who put those laws in place, but a big part of it is preventing people from producing and circulating child pornography (at least as far as sexting laws focusing on young people). That's a good thing to prevent, but those laws do pose the risk of catching young people try...
- Wed May 03, 2017 4:56 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
- Replies: 30
- Views: 12392
Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
for collars there are many options you could also use a choker many of those now-a-days have a bondagy feel and look as for a tail i am not sure if you would want to create a butt plug one but you could make a belt one just get some fur that matches your ears from the craft section and create a tai...
- Mon May 01, 2017 4:41 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I might be nude a lot more if I was comfortable being nude down there and around my chest?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4946
Re: I might be nude a lot more if I was comfortable being nude down there and around my chest?
There's definitely nothing wrong with being nude in your own private space, or with whatever aspects of medical transition might feel right to you now or in the future. I know a bunch trans people who have felt much more comfortable being partially or fully nude, whether that's in sexual situations...
- Mon May 01, 2017 4:27 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I might be nude a lot more if I was comfortable being nude down there and around my chest?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4946
Re: I might be nude a lot more if I was comfortable being nude down there and around my chest?
Do you have a sense of why that feels confusing? It sounds really reasonable to me that if you felt more comfortable with your body overall, it might feel more comfortable to be nude and have that body more visible/noticeable to you. Well, I guess it's just something my mother ingrained in me about...
- Mon May 01, 2017 5:47 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I might be nude a lot more if I was comfortable being nude down there and around my chest?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4946
I might be nude a lot more if I was comfortable being nude down there and around my chest?
Like if I actually wasn't flat and had the plumbing I want, I might be a nudist in my house. I'm confused about that?
- Thu Apr 27, 2017 12:17 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Having sex in a corset?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2682
Re: Having sex in a corset?
Since corsets, when formed and laced properly, don't really cause health risk, I doubt there would be any health risks involved in wearing one during sex (other than what you mentioned, and also potential discomfort since the item isn't really designed for physical exertion). I would, however, be c...
- Thu Apr 27, 2017 7:39 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Writing and/or drawing erotic stories/ pictures: A convenient way for some to enjoy sexy things and the sort.
- Replies: 9
- Views: 6157
Re: Writing and/or drawing erotic stories/ pictures: A convenient way for some to enjoy sexy things and the sort.
<3Oh my god, yes!<3BiKinksterBoy wrote:don't forget erotic comics!
(They can be quite interesting, to be honest. Sorry, about my lack of composure.
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- Thu Apr 27, 2017 7:33 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Having sex in a corset?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2682
Having sex in a corset?
Like actually laced tight, is there any major risks? (Other than maybe being short of breath, maybe.)
- Tue Apr 25, 2017 8:08 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Messy play?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1930
Messy play?
How could I do this without leaving with a heavy clean-up hassle?
- Tue Apr 25, 2017 7:20 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Feminine underthings?
- Replies: 35
- Views: 18807
Re: Feminine underthings?
Probably the best way is to use a mirror combined with a camera phone - you can take a picture of your reflection from behind and then zoom in to check that you're comfortable with how the whole area looks to others. There are also great guides written on lots of different fashion websites on how t...
- Tue Apr 25, 2017 6:44 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm pansexual, but I have preferences?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 6452
Re: I'm pansexual, but I have preferences?
That's totally normal! Labels are general categories and there's a lot of individual variety. As pan myself (yes, I'm pan and possibly demi. It's confusing in my head), I have some physical preferences though it is mostly based on personality (and all those lovely little details that take a long ti...
- Mon Apr 24, 2017 9:59 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: male and masculine booty appreciation thread!
- Replies: 2
- Views: 4236
Re: male and masculine booty appreciation thread!
I had an ex-boyfriend who had a really nice butt.capablehippie wrote:My boyfriend has a great butt, it's way better than mine.
- Mon Apr 24, 2017 4:50 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
- Replies: 30
- Views: 12392
Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
The issue there would likely be finding one that fit you comfortably. The benefit of something like confusedone described is that you could tailor it to fit your neck so that is was comfortable and safe to wear. Okay, well, considering I'm a small bean, finding one that fits wouldn't be too hard. :...
- Mon Apr 24, 2017 4:40 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
- Replies: 30
- Views: 12392
Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Try googling "paracord dog collar". Obviously, you don't have to use paracord, you can use soft ropes if you prefer. But tutorials on paracord patterns are available everywhere. Since you're looking for show-y styles, this gives you the opportunity to experiment with different patterns, d...
- Tue Apr 11, 2017 4:13 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Feminine underthings?
- Replies: 35
- Views: 18807
Re: Feminine underthings?
The seam is pretty much nonexistent, as it lays almost level with the panty itself, I just have a problem with it showing around my hips.Edith_* wrote:Mirrors and good light are good help. Also, wearing panties that do not have a thick seam is helpful too.