I'm aware of solo play dangers. (I.e. Why I veer away from it. Oh, and it's just unsatisfying.)

I figured UTI's were a risk. (Should be a relative no-brainer.) But, my mother had found out and was excessively fear mongering over it.

Something I did once with a kinky ex of mine, does it have any risks?

BiKinksterBoy wrote:collaborative erotic fiction through role-play is interesting to do

Can be chaos though.

True, what if my partner isn't always readily available. Any solo tips?

It's mostly the helplessness, the physical feel of the binds, the struggling and visual. I love it when I can't do much but struggle.

I've found it to be a positive thing, but like everything it's a personal choice. However for some, it would seem it is a great way to express maybe even more of a taboo sexuality than someone could think of. Or just to let off sexual tension.

Anyone have ideas, because I'm not able to get things easily?

Yay or nay, and why?

Where's she getting those ideas from is probably denial, simply misreading the article, transphobia, or some other inherent bias. (Especially around an article from my stepfather's mother, which states overbearing females (or males) in a child's life will cause gender identity issues.) Although, I w...

My mother keeps saying that sexual abuse causes "gender issues", and upon being asked for proof she says there is studies done that say it, and says about a CNN article.

I can't find it, anyone want to go on a newsstory hunt?

I'll try calling when I'm home alone.

Yes, probably would be my best bet to presume no family is coming.

Maybe, although it was highly unlikely to begin with in the first place.

Planning on it, although my grandmother might not come with me. (Because it's one of my friends, and apparently that is for some reason bad to her.)

I get money on holidays and stuff, or a friend might even drive me there.

Yes, as I do have some money, not enough right now for it. Although I have one trip left on a used 5 trip pass, that wouldn't get me back.

My grandmother probably won't pay for the fare for something like that.

Transport, and moreso being possibly not allowed to go.

I did look into it, but the plausibility of going to it right now is low.

For now, it's under wraps. Nobody knows besides who's involved and whoever reads this thread.

In my community and my mother and stepfather look down upon it. As far as I know the age of consent is 16, but that only applies is the minor is having sex with anyone over the age of 16. If I'm correct?

Which isn't the problem. However, it seems like around here it's not sooo.... socially acceptable. (Although, me dating someone two years older as long as I ask them out apparently is fine?) Also, another thing. Other than age of consent, is this legal? As she's 14 and I'm 16.

I could, buses run out that way and one way fare is rather cheap.

I don't think social services will do anything, personally, I've had a few cases where they never really "found" anything wrong. Somewhere else to live... I'm not sure if I could find anyone who would let me stay with them long term.