As far as what I'll get from it, honestly, my ideal was to experiment with being with women a bit more. Maybe find multiple people to share my love with besides the handsome man I live with, I dunno, not too sure, come what may of it. I know also though he's been talking about opening it up prior fo...

Hey Kittypink, Polyamory & open relationships can be beautiful things -- that's how I have chosen to live my life & I'm always down to talk about why. However! I would never recommend choosing polyamory because you're in a place of self-deprecation. You are a whole and beautiful and wonderf...

Primarily because of sex being akward because of me still having what I have down there, but also because it's making our romantic life weird and stuff. He's confused, my emotions all over the place and I've been craving major physical intimacy. I feel like I insignficant because I can't provide him...

Sam W wrote:Hi KittyPink,

Have the two of you tried using pillows or other supports at all? That could help you find or maintain a position in a way that doesn't strain your back or hips.

Not yet

Hey KittyPink, I'm sorry, I know it can be hard when you enjoy something and aren't able to figure out how to make it work for your body. Have you tried going back to square one and working your way up to anal sex with a penis? Working your way up with fingers, smaller toys, or even dilators and lo...

I was really enjoying it too. I had at least one orgasm and was having a very pleasureable time. But some discomfort in my hips and having to pull out for me to catch my breath and because he started having this akward angle and also like his weight hitting me started making me a little tired and al...

So I wanna suck my guy's dick buttt, I have a small mouth and a hella sensitive gag reflex. I mean I do like the concept of gagging on his dick when he's being rough, though my main concern is finding a way to relax my gag reflex and my jaw a bit without a gag because I'm concerned I'm gonna end up ...

I've trying to do butt stuff for awhile and I keep having to chicken out because of how painful it is. I enjoy it when it's not painful any advice?

Sam W wrote:Can you say a little more about that? What things in particular that you'd want to try do you think your size might effect?

Being short and scrawny, mainly might make it hard for me to pin folks or something like that if that's what they like and bring short comes with its own set of problems

Got it. In terms of not being heard by others, what to do depends a lot on where you're having sex. If it's in a shared house (or an apartment/dorm/other space with pretty thin walls), things like playing music, finding ways to muffle the sounds, or just making sure your windows are closed can go a...

Hi KittyPink, With the moaning, is your concern that you'd be embarrassed in front of a partner, or that you'd be overheard by someone else (like a neighbor or someone you live with)? As far as roles go (once it's safe to go out and have sex with partners you don't live with), there are a few diffe...

So since I've started estrogen my orgasms have become a lot more intense, and I have a tendency vocalize a lot now which has less to concerns about me moaning way too loud and embarrassing myself. Also, like while my sex drive is less active, I appear to be going through a change in preference for r...

So, I'm super nervous as trans girl about asking girls out, especially lesbians. Because of the fact I feel predatory even when I'm not and I feel like even though I am a girl, even with surgery down there I'll always be "different", I don't know if it's just exclusionary retoric getting t...

I'm gonna visit my therapist, as far as the support, I dunno honestly.

So a prospective boyfriend of mine had taken advantage of me when I wasn't exactly all there and I couldn't consent properly to sex when I had told him previously that I just wanted to cuddle and make out. He eventually brought me up to his bedroom and striped me down which I was okay with, but he s...

Hi Kittypink, While that wasn't the answer you were hoping for, it does sound like the two of you are able to talk about it openly and without it torpedoing your current relationship, which is a really positive outcome. Is there a way we can best support you around this right now? Maybe just figuri...

He's saying that he's got too much going on to have a relationship like that right now, which is understandable considering he's in college and trying to pay off debt from bills and other shit, but he's more concerned about keeping me away from his problems. Me and him are still talking farther, but...

To the last question, sort of, mainly because my grandmother's kinda absitence minded, if you get what I mean. I really don't want to explain why he's in my bedroom most of the time (I haven't told her anything about him other than he's a "friend") or staying the night and I'd have to ask ...

So there's this guy, I originally met him on a dating app, although, we started talking and became friends, and then we decided to mess around in the woods (probably not the best place to do stuff, but ehhhh, it's still better than a public bathroom), and so we've been talking for three months and m...

So, it's that time on Estrogen where my boobs and nips are really sensitive and growing in but they're like small A cups with like maybe a 32 band size, but I need support because the jiggling is unpleasant and painful right now, but like I need a cheap bra or two until I see where the growth's gonn...

Okay, so I'm not just imagining the cramps and being unusually irritable and nauseous, unusually, however, this was somewhat of a thing on blockers, but it was very weak and still noticable, I had been on just blockers for awhile longer than I should have, because of personal reasons. Which is stran...

Like I as I've recently started estrogen and have my levels down to a reasonable range, I have noticed that I have like this week of like mornings where I'll wake up really nauseous and/or I'll have a headache, generally tired and irritable during that time and I have stomach cramps but like it feel...

They haven't gone the greatest, but I think my sister might be a little more receptive, but I think my mother might get it if I explain it and just keeping going at the point that it will make me happier.

So my mother is doesn't approve of, but is okay with me hormonally transitioning if it makes me happy, but I feel like now might be a good time to try to explain to her that it would also help if she used my preferred name and pronouns.

Just as a safety precaution, can you connect me to resources?