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by avaiara
Fri Jun 29, 2018 11:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: relationships and feelings
Replies: 3
Views: 2832

Re: relationships and feelings

i can’t say that those articles really relate to what i’m feeling (though they did help a bit, so thank you :) ) i think it’s partly because i’m just not feeling as happy as i was before, you know? not that anything necessarily went wrong, i’m just feeling like the romantic aspect of this relationsh...
by avaiara
Fri Jun 29, 2018 2:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: relationships and feelings
Replies: 3
Views: 2832

relationships and feelings

hi, so i’ve been in a semi on and off relationship for almost two years now. we’ve had bumps in the road, but there’s no doubt we have love for eachother. he was my first love, i was his. we both lost our virginity to the other. lately, though, i’ve been feeling almost unhappy? unfulfilled? i don’t ...
by avaiara
Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:29 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i really need advice
Replies: 2
Views: 2127

i really need advice

hi, i promise i’m not as bad of a person as this makes me sound. i’ve been with my boyfriend off and on for about 1 year and 6 months. recently, though, i’ve noticed myself liking another guy. we’ll call him mike. mike and i are coworkers and we get along very well and i enjoy being around him. i’ve...
by avaiara
Sun Feb 25, 2018 9:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: weird pain after sex?
Replies: 1
Views: 1718

weird pain after sex?

hi!
so sometimes, after sex, i get pain where my ovaries are. they almost feel like period cramps, it really hurts when i get up and walk around, but if i’m sitting or laying it’s bearable. what could this be?
by avaiara
Fri Jan 19, 2018 3:40 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: discharge question
Replies: 2
Views: 1415

Re: discharge question

i’ll also add that my period started on the 12th and ended on the 15th.
by avaiara
Fri Jan 19, 2018 3:35 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: discharge question
Replies: 2
Views: 1415

discharge question

i ended my period three days ago (meaning the bleeding stopped) but i’ve been having brown discharge similar to blood the past three days. is this normal?
by avaiara
Sat Dec 23, 2017 2:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: sat in semen?
Replies: 1
Views: 2244

sat in semen?

hello! i hooked up with a boy i’ve been talking to last night and when we finished, he ejactlated on the sheets and i (unknowingly) sat up and sat in it for a few seconds. i laid back down and that’s when he pointed it out to me. is this something to worry about? or am i just turning it into somethi...
by avaiara
Fri Nov 17, 2017 7:47 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i’m really embarrassed
Replies: 1
Views: 1151

i’m really embarrassed

hi! so i’m really nervous about asking this because i’m so embarrassed by it but whenever i’m on my period i get uncontrollable queefs. it’s always when i wake up and they go on for up to 10 minutes at a time. is this normal?!
by avaiara
Mon Oct 30, 2017 7:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: boyfriend with a very short temper
Replies: 5
Views: 2857

Re: boyfriend with a very short temper

thank you for the advice, i really do appreciate it.
i just don’t know how to go about ending it - i do love him and he is my “first love”. he’s the one i lost my virginity to, too. there’s a lot of feelings here and even though i think this will be for the best, i don’t know where to start.
by avaiara
Sun Oct 29, 2017 11:39 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: boyfriend with a very short temper
Replies: 5
Views: 2857

Re: boyfriend with a very short temper

yeah, i’ve told him before how when he gets like that it scares me. he says he can’t help it and that he wouldn’t ever take it out on me. he apologizes when he yells at me but sometimes i still think he gets angry over little things. he was on medication for depression due to some family issues but ...
by avaiara
Sat Oct 28, 2017 7:32 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: boyfriend with a very short temper
Replies: 5
Views: 2857

boyfriend with a very short temper

hello again, so my boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and one month. he has somewhat bad anger problems and sometimes when he gets mad it scares me. he’ll hit things, slam things, yell...it’s scary. he’s never hit me, or verbally abused me. sometimes though i’ll ask something or do ...
by avaiara
Sat Jul 08, 2017 6:53 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: weird amount of discharge?
Replies: 1
Views: 1884

weird amount of discharge?

hi! today i've been having a lot of discharge...it feels really wet. it's very liquidy and white. is this normal?
by avaiara
Mon Jul 03, 2017 12:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: weird discharge after being fingered?
Replies: 1
Views: 33235

weird discharge after being fingered?

hi! yesterday my boyfriend fingered me. he was doing it kind of rough and moving really fast. this morning, i noticed a brown colored discharge in my panties. i'm not due for my period because i just finished a few days ago, and we haven't had sex in a few days. just wondering if it's normal or if i...
by avaiara
Thu Jun 29, 2017 10:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: feeling very unwanted
Replies: 1
Views: 1400

feeling very unwanted

lately my boyfriend (we've been together 9 months) hasn't been lasting very long during sex. he only gets 4-5 pumps in before he finishes. when we first began having sex, he would last anywhere from 20-25 minutes. i talked to him about it and he assures me that it isn't because of me, that he loves ...
by avaiara
Fri Dec 02, 2016 8:48 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: scared to masturbate?
Replies: 2
Views: 2116

Re: scared to masturbate?

yes, thank you! i've read some things on here and have decided to try some things. i'm still learning but i think with time i'll find what works!
by avaiara
Fri Dec 02, 2016 8:46 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: question about foreplay/sex
Replies: 2
Views: 1321

Re: question about foreplay/sex

thank you! those helped quite a bit, i'm still figuring out what and what doesn't work, and i was honest with him and he was okay with trying different things to figure out what does and doesn't work :)
by avaiara
Fri Dec 02, 2016 8:43 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: lots of pain
Replies: 1
Views: 1149

lots of pain

hello, my boyfriend and i have tried to have sex twice before but everytime we try (he does wear a condom) it is very painful for me when he tries to get inside of me. the best way to describe it is a burning feeling, and i do think im wet enough but even then, i still get that feeling. is there som...
by avaiara
Fri Nov 25, 2016 11:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: scared to masturbate?
Replies: 2
Views: 2116

scared to masturbate?

i'm a 17 year old female, i've never done this before. i mean i've felt around down there, but never actually done anything. i'm scared it will hurt, but i want to find out what works for me as i'm having trouble with feeling good during foreplay with my boyfriend, which i posted about earlier
by avaiara
Fri Nov 25, 2016 12:41 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: question about foreplay/sex
Replies: 2
Views: 1321

question about foreplay/sex

im having trouble feeling things, for a lack of better word, when my boyfriend touches me "down there". i usually fake it so he doesn't feel bad, but whenever he fingeres me, does any stimulation with my clit, or performs oral sex, i feel nothing. sometimes a tingling sensation in my thigh...
by avaiara
Fri Nov 25, 2016 12:35 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: birth control, the pill
Replies: 1
Views: 1196

birth control, the pill

will the pill make me gain weight? im a 4'11, roughly 100 pound girl.
by avaiara
Mon Nov 21, 2016 12:08 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: birth control
Replies: 1
Views: 1526

birth control

ill be starting birth control soon, what should i expect? what is it like? will it make me sick? eat before i take it? what happens if i miss a day?
by avaiara
Sun Nov 20, 2016 2:01 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: question about ejaculation
Replies: 1
Views: 1141

question about ejaculation

if my boyfriend came on my thigh but not near my vagina, and on the couch but only somewhat close to my vag, does that mean i could be pregnant? also, i started my period today but it's a brown colour.....when i clean up its bright red. does that mean anything?
by avaiara
Sun Nov 20, 2016 1:40 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: pregnancy scare is freaking me out!
Replies: 1
Views: 1109

pregnancy scare is freaking me out!

about a week ago, my boyfriend and i (we are both 17) had sex. he pulled out and came on my thigh and on the couch. on my thigh, it wasn't near my vagina. but on the cough, it was somewhat close but not directly touching. is it possible for me to still be pregnant? :(