Nothing.

I think it's quite unlikely for semen to leak out of a condom unless it has been broken in some way by the user or expired. Condoms have a little space where the head of the penis would go in order to gather the semen and provide decent space for air.

Thanks again. The support and counter support is what I meant with optimism and pessimism respectively. I can't doubt myself for being unsupportively pessimistic on that thread no matter what you or anyone else may say.

I'm very sorry. Thinking of what I wrote to that forum, I was quite pessimistic. If you were (and it seems you have been) seeking out optimism after tragedies like the Vegas concert shooting, I'm not a good source of it. I'm sorry. I should never have even touched that discussion.

Thanks for telling us, but whatever happened to that discussion you, I and Sam wrote in? Did you delete it?

Thank you, Redskies, for your advice. It makes sense to me. Is it really true that there are more people of all genders who want meaningful relationships founded on the sexual aspects (and are sober in there assertions) than I think there are? Also, you're right, Redskies. I guess I kinda did screw ...

The lines between physical appeal and emotional affection were quite blurry until around the time I finished middle school. So I had some crushes but only from a few second to a few weeks.

So if I impregnate a girl and she decides to keep the baby, would I have to pay for child support whether I'm ready or not?

What about pregnancies that are totally unplanned by both partners? The uterus-possessing partner has all the legal say in whether to abort the baby or to have her and her impregnater to become parents. So if a woman gets pregnant and says "I'm gonna have this baby", the man who got her pr...

So the laws are that only the pregnant partner has the legal say in what to do with a pregnancy, and the impregnater has to pay for child support. What happens if someone with a uterus tricks someone with a penis into getting pregnant by, say, poking holes in a condom or lying about birth control pl...

I'm just gonna spit everything out here. Thanks, Mo. Hopefully my desires will naturally adjust when I'm older. But I really would like to adjust sometime soon because my desires are still at a crooked angle with reality. I know kids at my school who are or could possibly be having sex, but I know e...

That does make sense. It's just that environments like I've been looking for seem to model unhealthy, one-sided relationships like brothels with prostitutes and bars where it's not quite safe to seek out relationships in order to make clear decisions. Thank you Karyn, but this is what I meant.

I feel I should "adjust" because the interpersonal environment I've been describing that I want is not only unavailable to me now, but there will probably never be that kind of place I would like to go. Sex and (healthy) relationships just never seem to go hand in hand anywhere in terms of...

I would like help changing my preferences so that I don't need to go somewhere solely designed for people to go to have sexual relationships. I've done research and it seems like there are one or two places on all of Planet Earth where relationships are addressed with sex. I know you guys don't like...

Sorry if I keep buggin' ya. I keep posting discussions here not because I'm only comfortable with talking about this with you guys, (I don't mind having other users reply to my discussions in other forums) but I feel you're the most reliable people to discuss this with. Just FYI. I would like some h...

Thanks Mo, but I got completely off track here. I meant to ask for something very different, but I can't explain things worth shit. :oops: I just want to tell a family member that entering avenues that aren't explicitly sexual aren't gonna get me anywhere anytime soon. I would still be open to sexua...

Alrightie then. Thanks Mo. Let's shift the focus from asking for an environment to seek out sexual relationships to just letting a family member know if I do attend those services when I find one. This seems quite unpredictable. I could find an area for relationship-making before I move out of my fa...

I would like to talk about how I would like best to seek out relationships within an environment solely designed for that purpose without making it sound so far-fetched. I would like this family member to help me in giving me an area where sexuality is addressed. I have talked about girlfriends (but...

Okay. I would like to get just one family member involved in helping me seek out relationships and I have some in mind. What I feel I really need is environments where I can have my sexuality addressed upfront rather than places I go to pursue other interests and maybe running into someone who's int...

The big day for me is right around the corner: My 16th birthday. This means that I will legally be old enough in my state to consent to sexual activity with anybody older than me. My intense desire to share my sex with other human beings hasn't gone away since I hit puberty in my early teens. I actu...

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Let's see if I grasp what you're asking: are you asking "Can a connection that's built on "we'd like to have sex with each other sometimes" be as healthy as a connection that's built on "we have some things in common and we like hanging out together"?" ? Yes. That is w...

Oh Kay. First of all, Jacob, when I talked about relationships lasting a decent while, I didn't mean long-term romantic relationships. I meant relationships that last at least longer than a One-night stand. I don't want that. Secondly, I don't expect much from sex. I'm a total virgin. (I don't belie...

Have relationships founded upon common desire for sex ever been healthy and lasted a decent while? Relationships that were more about everyone who would get involved looking for someone to do sexual stuff with rather than going somewhere to pursue other dreams and desires and just running into someo...

I would like some clarifications about sexual readiness and consent. Does it matter how long partners wait before engaging in sexual activity that they both know are enthusiastically interested in? I ask this (and I may ask other questions) because I plan to attend certain dating services (where I'm...