My boyfriend held me down and touched me without asking, but in the past, I had given him permission to do that. After asking him, he told me that it was what he thought I wanted. Can it still be sexual abuse even without him meaning for it to be? Even if he genuinely thought it was what i wanted?

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I am bleeding but I am on birth control and I am not supposed to be on my period yet. This is only month 2 of birth control. Is it possible I am just not regulated yet? Or is something wrong?

I think i just got sexually assaulted. I was tipsy and this guy pressured me to do things i was uncomfortable with, but then later he said "but it is up to you" so i am confused? Was i sexually assaulted?.

I could do that

I guess that makes sense

I suppose, but i truly feel that he didnt mean to hurt me. But it still hurts.

Is it rape even if he didn't mean to force me and he just did so subconsciously?

Not really. I am too afraid that my therapist would report it.

I guess I just need to know why he hurt me. It feels like he raped me, even though that might not be the correct term. And I need to know how i can get over this and start living my life.

Hi, so um, this might get a little bit graphic so i apologize in advance. So um, my ex boyfriend did some things and I wonder if he sexually coerced me or violated my consent without meaning to? So once, we were having sex, and it hurt to i told him to stop and said that it hurt. He started crying a...