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by Scottch
Fri Mar 31, 2017 8:20 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I feel like I'm lying every time we have sex…
Replies: 1
Views: 1678

I feel like I'm lying every time we have sex…

Back, again, with another I-can't-feel-anything thread. It's been a while since I last posted. My partner and I have tried a lot more in the bedroom together: we've tried different positions for anal, he's managed to get 2 fingers inside me (and bring me to orgasm from it - FTM here so talking about...
by Scottch
Mon Dec 12, 2016 8:02 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Improving taste?
Replies: 3
Views: 1957

Re: Improving taste?

Yea, I'm personally not convinced the pineapple trick is anything more than an urban legend, but he swears by it so I'll let him have his fun haha. I was just wondering if there's a telltale sign (tightening, change in taste, increase in heart rate etc) that I could go off of. I try to pay attention...
by Scottch
Mon Dec 12, 2016 6:33 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Improving taste?
Replies: 3
Views: 1957

Improving taste?

So I love going down on my boyfriend. I much, much prefer it to usual intercourse, and he tends to enjoy it more as well. The only problem is, I really, really don't like the taste of cum. And I find it lingers no matter how many times I brush my teeth, gargle mouthwash, drink coffee etc. He's appar...
by Scottch
Sat Dec 03, 2016 12:11 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Why can't I feel anything?
Replies: 5
Views: 6014

Re: Why can't I feel anything?

Just to check in with this piece, have you considered, and discussed, that these kinds of sex just don't work for you? I think it's always important to remember that just like no kind of anything - like eating, for example - works for all our bodies and/or sexualities, the same is true of sex. Ther...
by Scottch
Sat Dec 03, 2016 12:00 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Choking hazards?
Replies: 5
Views: 3332

Re: Choking hazards?

I'm not medically certified, so don't take my word for gospel at all, but in the BDSM community I'm in, choking and breath play is pretty commonplace and a lot less taboo than certain other things, so maybe there's a cultural difference there. Anyway. One thing I will say is please, please, watch ou...
by Scottch
Sat Dec 03, 2016 11:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Why can't I feel anything?
Replies: 5
Views: 6014

Re: Why can't I feel anything?

Hi Scottch, and welcome to Scarleteen It can be so frustrating when your brain wants to do something but other parts of your body aren't cooperating. I'm glad to hear though that you and your partner have such a positive relationship, as that can help with some of the approaches you might end up tr...
by Scottch
Sat Dec 03, 2016 9:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Why can't I feel anything?
Replies: 5
Views: 6014

Why can't I feel anything?

I've read a few answers around this subject on the advice column, but nothing is quite what I'm experiencing. I'll start off with some quick things that might affect the situation: 1) I'm transgender (female to male). I've been on testosterone for 3 months now, and have been out for over two years. ...