"There's no "correct" way to masturbate, and people find different ways of doing so based on their bodies. If what you're doing now works for you, there's no automatic reason you'd need to change." That's basically been my thinking, but I mostly feel like I should work on these t...

So I have been masturbating for years and I enjoy it an have no problem reaching orgasm, but I always do it through my clothes. Like I keep my pants or underwear on and don't actually touch my body. Is that weird? I don't know why, but I am very uncomfortable doing this. I also don't use tampons bec...

I totally agree with you about faking not being a one-sided gender experience. I was just speaking from my experience and I mostly hear about women faking (which is probably because I am a woman), so I was just exploring the issue from that perspective. I also agree that there really isn't anyone to...

Well, it's just that it is always the person who faked an orgasm that is considered in the wrong. This seems really backwards to me and I don't understand it.

Why is faking an orgasm considered to be so horrible? I get why it's a bad idea for several reasons... I understand that it's not doing yourself any favors because you're effectively telling your partner that whatever they are doing is working for you and you enjoy it when you are not, which will pr...

I don't know how to make people understand that I like them while refusing to touch them.. Like they don't believe me even if I say I do or they don't care that I do.

It's just extra weird because this is generally a problem most people have faced by my age so I'm just worried anyone I want to date will think it's weird for me to be this nervous. In my experience, there really haven't been people willing to go at the pace I need because it is ridiculously slow. Y...

The anxiety is only with potential romantic partners. I'm fine with friends and family. I think I am just really nervous that I will do something wrong or embarrassing. I know that that this is an irrational fear, but in the moment I am unable to convince myself of this and I just conclude that it's...

I am 21 and have had very little sexual experience. I only held hands and kissed one guy (once). I get extremely nervous any time I am in a situation where there is potential for any physical contact. I have gone on dates with a few guys who are really nice and respectful and have given me no reason...