Thank you very much for the reply. I think I have to agree, it may be time to abstain for a bit. I just wish things were different and I could revert back to the "old me," the me who had faith in BC. Perhaps it's time to get creative and explore other intimacy options :) Please offer hugs ...

Hi there! I currently have the Paragard IUD, in addition, my husband and I use condoms and spermicide each and every time. I'd like to add one more form, do you think a diaphram is ok, or could that pull on the strings and cause it to come out? Is there anything else I might be able to buddy up with...