Hey Heather, Sorry I haven't had a chance to get back on and answer you. Before I posted this question I had briefly spoken to my boyfriend about the issue. However I hadn't really explained to him the reasons why I felt the way I did. I hope that you don't mind me posting such long-winded question ...

Thanks a lot for your reply Heather. I think you are right about sex validating his interest in me, I am just not sure how to get over this. I tell myself "it's not just about sex, he wants to be with you and loves spending time with you and we do loads of nice things together and he does so mu...

Hi Heather, Sorry, we have been together around 3 years. It's a difficult question to answer actually, as we begun seeing each other right before he went away for 4 months but it has been 3 years since he got back and we officially got together. However, we have also spend a large amount of time apa...

I am 23 year old female. I'm in my second serious relationship. My boyfriend is 25 and we live together. Just to give you a bit of background, I suffer from depression and anxiety which has at times caused things to be very up and down in our relationship. I love my boyfriend very much and feel so l...