I've had sex...but it doesn't hurt too much but there is a lot of pressure, is that normal? I feel like it is and i have to get used to it but at the same time does desensitizing lube help with the pain?

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Sooooo my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time the other day. It was also the start of my period. I was bleeding much more than i normally do on the starting day of my period. My period is now normal but for the first day and a half i was bleeding quite a lot. Can you help!? I was a bit freake...