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by Jk2911
Wed May 17, 2017 10:51 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: How to maintain a sex life?
Replies: 2
Views: 2805

How to maintain a sex life?

I live with my parents, yeah... But the bigger problem is, that I have to share a bedroom with a sibling and it affects my sex life, because i have very few privacy because of it, because mostly he is at home and mom is too so yeah. And I have a small bed which is not the biggest problem, but it is ...
by Jk2911
Wed Mar 08, 2017 11:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Wanting to move on, for good
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Re: Wanting to move on, for good

I think learning from mistakes and taking those lessons to heart in the future is one of the best things you can do moving forward. "Moving on" from something doesn't mean you can't think about it or be impacted by it; instead I'd say it means that thing is less and less of a focus of you...
by Jk2911
Sat Feb 18, 2017 10:18 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Wanting to move on, for good
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Re: Wanting to move on, for good

I do everything i can not to see her or anything as staying in the class when there is ressess(idk how to write it) and yeah that is about it and i usually know what class she Will be so i avoid going that way. By learning, I have learned lot about intimate and sexual relationships and what should i...
by Jk2911
Sat Feb 18, 2017 9:00 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Wanting to move on, for good
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Re: Wanting to move on, for good

I have spent lots of time cultivating with my friend and my brother, dont really have a family to spend time with and with myself only gym and stuff, but yeah i try to take everything with me that i have learned, but i just dont want to see her, but i have to... And try to learn from my mistakes and...
by Jk2911
Sat Feb 18, 2017 3:35 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Wanting to move on, for good
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Wanting to move on, for good

I just cant move on. It has been a while since we broke up, even too long for it to bother me( i probably should have been moved on by now) and yet it is still bothering me, well because i feel it is my fault we broke up, because how i behaved, acted and what affection i showed towards her. I have b...
by Jk2911
Fri Feb 17, 2017 1:40 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?
Replies: 8
Views: 2508

Re: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?

There are a couple of pieces that might be useful to read as a start: Shown Actual Size: A Penis Shape & Size Lowdown ED: Why You Don't Have to Get So Down About Not Getting It Up Too, as Jacob suggested, a therapist or counsellor could be helpful if you're finding that you just can't let go of...
by Jk2911
Fri Feb 17, 2017 1:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?
Replies: 8
Views: 2508

Re: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?

There are a couple of pieces that might be useful to read as a start: Shown Actual Size: A Penis Shape & Size Lowdown ED: Why You Don't Have to Get So Down About Not Getting It Up Too, as Jacob suggested, a therapist or counsellor could be helpful if you're finding that you just can't let go of...
by Jk2911
Fri Feb 17, 2017 12:55 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?
Replies: 8
Views: 2508

Re: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?

Oh Jk! I'm so moved to read all this. It sounds you are really struggling with some very low self esteem. It's not on us to do everything right when we start having relationships, or put pressure on our bodies to behave a certain way. You deserve a lot more more self-care and self-acceptance than y...
by Jk2911
Fri Feb 17, 2017 12:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?
Replies: 8
Views: 2508

Re: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?

Yeah, i am really thankful for this advice :). Cheers
by Jk2911
Fri Feb 17, 2017 4:31 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?
Replies: 8
Views: 2508

How to move on from the past relationship mistakes, regarding sex?

I feel sad and discouraged. I couldn't have normal sex with my now ex. The problem? Well it was me. I couldn't sustain an erection. I made a big deal out of it. We didn't talk about it. She tried to comfort, i didnt listen. I shut off, and sex didnt continue(how stupid and selfish from me) I felt un...
by Jk2911
Wed Feb 15, 2017 10:32 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Waiting for sex in a relationship
Replies: 2
Views: 1658

Waiting for sex in a relationship

Sorry for posting the Same content, because last time my wording was a bit off and it sounde weird. So ill post again. Lets say, i have started to date a girl. Should i wait to consider for sex for a few months we have dated, for it to more special or more comfortable and relaxed and i know the pers...
by Jk2911
Wed Feb 15, 2017 10:19 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Waiting for sex in a relationship
Replies: 1
Views: 1501

Re: Waiting for sex in a relationship

I meant consider not insist
by Jk2911
Wed Feb 15, 2017 4:01 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Waiting for sex in a relationship
Replies: 1
Views: 1501

Waiting for sex in a relationship

Lets say, i have started to date a girl. Should i wait to insist for sex for a few months we have dated, for it to more special or more comfortable and relaxed and i know the person more, so it would be more smoother? I have somewhat researched waiting for sex for a few months, might be healthy for ...
by Jk2911
Mon Feb 06, 2017 3:13 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual communication
Replies: 1
Views: 1371

Sexual communication

I know communication over sex is vital to a good sexual relationship. But for me it IS just uncomfortable to talk about, purely becuase I have suffered ED before and i feel quite embarrased about it. What should I do? I might be porn induced but over the course of previous erection issues, just thin...
by Jk2911
Fri Feb 03, 2017 2:08 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Performance anxiety and libido
Replies: 1
Views: 1270

Performance anxiety and libido

Can performance anxiety and the stress out of it cause men to have lower libido and eventually start to avoid sex with their SO or with any girl, just do masturbation and porn as it is the "easy" way to get a orgasm and just to avoid sex and talking about it out of embarrasment, shame and ...
by Jk2911
Fri Feb 03, 2017 12:38 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Performance anxiety and worries
Replies: 3
Views: 1817

Re: Performance anxiety and worries

I read it and it was helpful :). Any advice more? Can porn have its part?(porn-induced erectile dysfunction)
by Jk2911
Thu Feb 02, 2017 3:41 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Performance anxiety and worries
Replies: 3
Views: 1817

Performance anxiety and worries

When my first sexual experience wasnt really good or pleasurable, as I lost my erection before penetration. I now have a hard time moving on from kissing, cuddling, snuggling, messing around to the real thing, because now i am anxious and fearful of happening it again. I have had chances to have sex...