No he has not. I think I don't bring it up because I don't want to ruin the moment I'm thinking more for his pleasures instead of mine which I know is wrong

I feel ashamed that I'm not turned on I guess at the times my partner wants me to be.

And if it was the i would want them to feel comfortable telling me how they feel in the moment and not like I'm forcing them.

I don't really know how to say it that I'm not turned on or that it hurts, I think it's because I'm embarrassed or intimidated and I should just stick through the pain and it'll get better.

I never really thought about it that way and I think I do have trouble with talking about it I've had trouble with a partner about it in the past

The other night my boyfriend and I had sex, it had been about a year since I had sex with anyone and I know I wasn't that turned on at the time. But he went pretty deep it hurt at first but it got better but once we were done it started hurting again like a sore and I was bleeding profulesly. I went...