Hi Alice, thanks for your input. When I went to the doctor about it she also suggested counselling, and because the uni term is about to end I think I will go when I am at home. I spoke to my boyfriend and he said he is happy to wait as long as I need for me to be comfortable with anything. Yeah spe...

When I say it feeling much, I mean that I wouldn't feel much sensation in my genitals. I would be into it and enjoying it, but just not feeling much down there. I am about to go home for the summer for about 3 months, where I will be able to see him a lot. I do see that it could come across that I'm...

We are both at uni and so haven't seen eachother much since I first posted. When I did see him and we tried to be sexual, I enjoyed the kissing and he kissed all down my body and it felt good because it was like electricity down my body, and I have confided in him all of my fears about it. I know it...

I have enjoyed the act with him, but I didn't really feel much pleasure, although I do believe I am aroused.

I do feel like I really want to be sexual with him, I would like nothing more than to be able to do so, but it feels like something is preventing me from doing so. I do feel attracted to him, I always want to be around him and I miss him dearly, but I feel as if I have worked myself into such a pani...

I feel like I want to be with a man in the future, and I love the way my boyfriend makes me feel. But the constant doubt and the desperation to find something on the internet that will help me is becoming unbearable

I'm not sure what to do anymore. The obsession with the possibility of being a lesbian has become overbearing. I can't stop thinking about it, anyone that walks past me on the street, a voice inside my head will go "if you looked at her you must be a lesbian" and I feel sick. I am so terri...

Thank you very much, this does reassure me that it will happen at some point and it just takes time. I will have a read of those links too!

I want to also add that I think we were both very inexperienced and have only been with eachother, that when we did have sex it would mostly be vagina oriented, with no clitoral action.

I have spoken to him about it, he is very understanding and was willing to do whatever I wanted in terms of waiting before we had sex, trying new things etc. But it has now got to the point where almost every minute of the day I will think "what if I'm a lesbian?" Even though I have never ...

I am a 20 year old girl, and I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 5 years. It has only dawned on me recently that I never orgasmed through sex, and pretty much didn't feel much pleasure 'down there' at all. He is only boy I have slept with (I was 16 when I lost my virginity to him (neither o...