Yes I totally want to be supportive and respectful without putting any extra pressure on him. Maybe it didn't come across in my message but I am so grateful he told me and aware of how hard it is for him. I hope it didn't seem minimising in my message, I guess I assumed that was obvious but of cours...

Hi, I've been with my partner for 4 years. He just told me that, at the start of our relationship, about three times he had sex with me that he didn't want and that I didn't pick up on. I realise that, at the start of our relationship (before he transitioned) I thought of him as this sexual, fun lov...