You're right about it not being a deal-breaker for a future partner - I really appreciate hearing those words, because I know they're legit. I am what I am & there's not much I can do to change my anxiety - I need someone who's able to ride the waves with me (or stand on the beach while I do... ...

I was definitely feeling the leg-shakes the first time I had partnered sex - had never happened to me before, but now it's a signal to me that something really pleasurable is about to happen!!

Does it worry you, or are you just curious about it?

Thank you both for your advice. We've been in contact fairly often (once every few days at least). All of my friends are telling me it's a bad call but I'm so scared of losing my best friend - I can't imagine getting through life without him. I mean I like obviously WOULD, but... the reason I haven'...

I'm 22 - came to this site when I was getting ready to have sex for the first time bc queer sex ed is seriously lacking. And coming back now... for advice on dealing with the break up. My partner & I were friends for a year before dating for four months (long distance). I was in my senior year o...