So me and my partner were about to have sex but when he entered me, it hurt really bad so I had to stop it. I just wondered why I would be so sore? We haven’t had sex in a few weeks so it’s not like I’m getting over soreness from a previous encounter. Also, we have had sex a lot and this has never h...

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I’ve just turned 21 today and have noticed that I think my boobs have gotten bigger. I have been going to the gym a lot more so don’t know if that has contributed. I also might’ve put on weight so I wondered if that could be a factor? I am ok the pill and always use condoms.

Hi Scarleteen, So I’m on the combined pill. I take it for 21 days and have a 7 day break. I finish the pill on a Tuesday and have my withdrawal bleed on Saturday then I start the next pill pack on the following Wednesday. Me and my boyfriend had sex last night after I took my pill, the bleeding had ...

Thank you for your reply Corey, I understand that I do suffer with anxiety as I am actually on medication for it. I got my withdrawal bleed last Saturday and that lasts until Wednesday, then I take my combined pill at 7:30pm. I bled normally but a couple of days later there was still a tiny bit of b...

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I just wondered how are you supposed to know if you’re pregnant on the pill? I take a combined pill for 21 days and have a 7 day break which is when I will bleed. If I was to become pregnant would I not experience bleeding at all? Probably a silly question.

So I went away with my boyfriend the other weekend for the night and I did drink a lot and got pretty drunk. Safe to say the night ended with me being sick... anyway that’s not really what I’m on here to talk about. I remember quite a bit of the night but one thing is bugging me a lot. I don’t know ...

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I usually take my combined pill at 7:30 but as I’m not at home and don’t have it with me, will it do any harm in me taking it late? Like 3 hours max?

Thanks Heather, we didn’t carry on fully again. It was just one more thrust in me and then we stopped so there isn’t a need for concern? If we were to carry on having sex then I would totally get him to put a new condom on

Ah ok, see he removed the condom himself so I didn’t see it. But I’m assuming I’m safe because he only entered me one more time after he previously ejaculated?

Hi, This might be a silly question but just wanted reassurance. I’m on the pill and me and my boyfriend used a male condom, during intercourse he ejaculated obviously into the condom and after that he entered me one more time. I’m just a bit concerned that because his condom was already full and he ...

I’m going away with my boyfriend this weekend and I’m on my 7 day break of the pill, I usually start on a Saturday but I’m worried that I might start my period during sex. I don’t really want to not have my 7 day break as it’ll mess up my cycle. Is it true that sex can delay periods?

Hey, So I’m on the pill and had sex a few times and used a condom each time with my boyfriend. The two times I’ve come off the pill (after my 3 week being on it) I’ve got my period. I’m just panicking a bit because today is my due date and I’m barely bleeding and concerned I might be pregnant! I stu...

Hi, So me and my boyfriend had sex last night, we used a condom and I’m on the combined pill so we were safe. Thing is I woke up this morning, went to the toilet and there was very light bright red blood when I wiped. Is this something I should be concerned about? I’m a worrier/ suffer from bad anxi...

Thanks again Sam. Should I just take my last pill of the cycle tonight as normal and expect my period to have changed a bit?

Sorry for another message, I just forgot to include it in my previous message! As there was a bit of blood this morning, do you think there’s a possibility that it’s because my vagina hasn’t had time to heal considering I lost my virginity Saturday night?

Thank you again! Following on from our conversation. I saw him again last night and things got pretty heated and he ended up fingering me quite a bit. I went to the toilet this morning and there was bright red blood again. I read somewhere that it’s possible to start your period earlier but the thin...

Okay thank you very much for that. It’s only very light spotting but it’s on my mind and I am a bit worried. As I lost it Saturday night, i should stop spotting by tomorrow shouldn’t I?

Hi, So Saturday night I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and we were safe using a condom and i am on the combined pill as well. I noticed after the event there was blood on the sheets which I assume is because my hymen was broken. Is this correct? Sunday morning I noticed there was a bit of brigh...

Oh yeah I would use a condom as well I just wanted some reassurance really as I’m scared to get pregnant

Ok thank you for that! So basically if I still get my period at the same time every month, then it’s unlikeky I’d be pregnant?

Hi, This might be a very silly question but I’m on the pill so I take it for 3 weeks and then have a week without taking it. On the week of not taking it I get my period. My question is if I was to fall pregnant on the pill and on the week of not taking the pill and I don’t get my period, could this...

I just felt a bit uncomfortable with the closeness as I'm an independent person and haven't had much experience with guys so I just panicked a bit. I did think it was soothing but I didn't allow myself to enjoy it which I think is because I had a bad relationship beginning of this year with a guy wh...

Hi, I really need some advice! I just had my second meetup with a guy and I started to overthink everything about me and him and what could or might not happen. We were sitting watching tv and he was very close to me, he wasn't doing anything sexually. His hand was by arm and he was lightly stroking...

I'd probably say there's been little chat on it, I mentioned how it's difficult with time difference and work and he just agreed really.

Yeah I totally get it! I just am a bit put out atm because I tried talking to him after I finished work but because of the time difference he was still working. I kinda got the hint and didn't want to be a pest so I told him that I'll let him go, he said that we will talk later and I left the ball i...