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- Sun Jul 26, 2020 6:58 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Single During Quarantine
- Replies: 6
- Views: 3893
Re: Single During Quarantine
Hey :) You 100% get to have normal human feelings! I'm glad you're giving yourself some grace, and it sounds like you have some nuanced thinking around all this, which is great. So, I'm also single and had been thinking about maybe starting to date again - in a more slow and careful way than perhaps...
- Sun Jul 26, 2020 6:30 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Can’t finger(?)
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2707
Re: Can’t finger(?)
Hi BPanther_L I'm glad you've come to us with your questions! Ask as many as you like :D So like sex and romance, masturbation is something that everyone comes to in their own time and in different ways. Most people with a vulva orgasm much more reliably from external stimulation than internal - if ...
- Fri Jul 03, 2020 6:11 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3924
Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Hi Sabine, It sounds like you're feeling anxious a lot about the people you match with on dating apps, and like you're feeling very invested in every match. I totally get it! It's exciting to think about possible dates or relationships with these people! The thing is, until you get to know someone w...
- Fri Jul 03, 2020 5:44 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
- Replies: 33
- Views: 8857
Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Hey Sabine, I think that you make an important distinction here - you FEEL like you're failing, but I don't think relationships are really something that you fail at. You mentioned a therapist - have you spoken to them about the fears you have about being ghosted, and how it feels like you need a re...
- Fri Jul 03, 2020 5:28 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Hair and Presentation
- Replies: 37
- Views: 58523
Re: Hair and Presentation
Hey Raffles, Thanks for sharing this update. It sounds like you're mostly sharing, so I'm not trying to give you a lot of specific advice here but I want you to know that you're seen and we hear you. It sounds like you've been putting a lot of pressure on yourself to do or be everything all the time...
- Fri Jul 03, 2020 4:48 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: I'm sick of transphobia
- Replies: 2
- Views: 9114
Re: I'm sick of transphobia
Hey there OPT1M15T1C,
I get that this is a vent post, and so I figure you're not really looking for much of a response here but I want you to know that we hear you, we're here for you, and sometimes anger is totally reasonable <3
I get that this is a vent post, and so I figure you're not really looking for much of a response here but I want you to know that we hear you, we're here for you, and sometimes anger is totally reasonable <3
- Fri Jun 19, 2020 7:29 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Sex and Feelings can be confusing
- Replies: 20
- Views: 7472
Re: Sex and Feelings can be confusing
Hi Buddyboi, Mis-matched desire can cause feelings of shame and frustration for both partners, so I'm glad you are clearly working hard at being kind to one another around this. The thing is, both of you are perfectly healthy and normal exactly the way you are. There is nothing wrong with you feelin...
- Fri Jun 19, 2020 7:01 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Sexual Health Check Up
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3078
Re: Sexual Health Check Up
Hi! We've got a whole article diving into exactly those kinds of details right here: Testing, Testing... Basically, they'll usually start with asking a bit about your sexual history things like how many people you've had sex with in the last 3/6 months, the kinds of sex you had and whether you are p...
- Fri Jun 12, 2020 6:28 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Boundaries
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3541
Re: Boundaries
Hi tomatopotato, You never HAVE to challenge someones views on women, particularly if you don't feel too safe doing so. You also don't have to accept sexual talk or talk about women that makes you uncomfortable. It sounds here like you're trying to balance a few things: anti-racism and political org...
- Fri Jun 12, 2020 5:45 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How often do single people have sex?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6951
Re: How often do single people have sex?
hey andrej, I think this sentence of yours is pretty cool: whenever I had sex, I had because I wanted to and it was always amazing I think a lot of people have a bunch of mediocre sex - or mediocre relationships - for the sake of having sex and relationships. Hell, a plenty of folks have bad sex rat...
Re: Self Love
hi haikyufan123 Managing our emotions is a skill that takes a lot of time and practice - we won't always get it right and we need to be gentle with ourselves as we learn. I'll share some of the things that help me with my emotions in a second, but first I want to say that it is okay to share your fe...
- Fri May 29, 2020 3:45 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I know if it’s just a phase?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2187
Re: How do I know if it’s just a phase?
So glad that Sam's answer helped you
we're always here if you have more questions or want to talk about this some more!
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- Fri May 22, 2020 4:38 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: brazilian waxing
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2076
Re: brazilian waxing
Hi Crystal-River It's totally normal to sometimes have sexual thoughts about people, including people we don't really know. Those thoughts are yours alone and no-one is going to know that they are there unless you choose to share them. The important thing in this context is to remember that the tech...
- Fri May 22, 2020 4:19 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Female Condom
- Replies: 13
- Views: 5731
Re: Female Condom
I'm not quite sure what you mean. Around the area of the vulva there are three openings: the vaginal canal, the urethra (this one is very small and harder to spot) and the anus - there's a good diagram and explanation here which you can look at for more information: Innies & Outies: The Vagina, ...
- Fri May 22, 2020 4:11 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Masturbation Query
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2514
Re: Masturbation Query
Hi TS_6249 Ejaculate varies in consistency based on things like how recently/often you have been ejaculating and even how hydrated you are. If you haven't ejaculated in a while it's not unusual to find that when you do there is more of it and it is runnier as your body has had time to produce more f...
- Fri May 15, 2020 2:24 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Penis Shape
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2941
Re: Penis Shape
Okay, if you're feeling pain then a checkin with your doctor is a good idea.
- Fri May 15, 2020 2:22 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Covid anxiety
- Replies: 11
- Views: 4551
Re: Covid anxiety
sky, I can hear that you're hurting. The virus is causing all kinds of strain right now and it sounds like it's putting pressure on you in a lot of ways. I'm sorry. These feelings that you're having - the anxiety, the hurt, the not feeling like your own care is worth prioritising - are exactly why t...
- Fri May 15, 2020 2:12 am
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: My Boyfriend is staying at my old school
- Replies: 36
- Views: 20092
Re: My Boyfriend is staying at my old school
What about you, solareclipse? Do you feel good about continuing a long distance relationship with this person?
- Fri May 15, 2020 2:09 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: memories
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2540
Re: memories
You know, I don't think that moving on from a relationship is the same as forgetting it ever happened. You can be happy in your life and not want to return to a previous relationship whilst also appreciating what was nice about it. In fact, I *like* being able to look back at past relationships and ...
- Fri May 08, 2020 6:42 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Masturbation Tips
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2141
Re: Masturbation Tips
So in your other post you said you had a penis - while genitals don't fall neatly into two cateogries (hi intersex folks!) - the G-spot, if it even exists, is associated with the front wall of a vagina. For folks with a penis, the prostate gland is often referred to as the "P-spot" or some...
- Fri May 08, 2020 6:31 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Penis Shape
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2941
Re: Penis Shape
Penises come in all kinds of shapes and sizes - and yes, plenty of them are more or less curved. When you say sex position, I'm assuming you mean for intercourse? In which case, your partner's bodies will vary too, and what feels good for both of you will be up to your individual preferences - the b...
- Fri May 08, 2020 6:16 am
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: My Boyfriend is staying at my old school
- Replies: 36
- Views: 20092
Re: My Boyfriend is staying at my old school
Hi solareclipse02,
Big changes can be hard. So I'm clear, are you and your this person planning on trying a relationship long-distance, or are you breaking up? Have you spoken at all about what moving means for the two of you?
Big changes can be hard. So I'm clear, are you and your this person planning on trying a relationship long-distance, or are you breaking up? Have you spoken at all about what moving means for the two of you?
- Fri May 08, 2020 6:15 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is this masturbation method safe?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1761
Re: Is this masturbation method safe?
Great!
You know, our most important sex organ is our brain, not our genitals. The key point is that it feels good for you - whether you have an erection or not. Sure, some types of sex are easier when erect but it's pretty limiting to say there is only one "right way" to do it - you know?
You know, our most important sex organ is our brain, not our genitals. The key point is that it feels good for you - whether you have an erection or not. Sure, some types of sex are easier when erect but it's pretty limiting to say there is only one "right way" to do it - you know?
- Sun May 03, 2020 6:27 am
- Forum: Abuse & Assault
- Topic: I just feel so broken..Am I?
- Replies: 217
- Views: 82538
Re: I just feel so broken..Am I?
There is so much good news in there! Being able to get outside with your pup is definitely a major positive, I'm glad you have that right now. I know it's frustrating when you are taking the right steps and moving through the process isn't giving you tangible improvements, but you're absolutely righ...
Re: MSN Bot
We've already done all we can to reassure you on that, here and in your other thread. I get that you're feeling anxious about this, so what helps when you're feeling anxious and trapped in these worries?