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Hi Juventa, Okay, so if you're going past this part of your anatomy and then reaching a part of your vaginal canal on the other side with more space, and it has texture but no divet, it sounds more like your g-spot. The cervix isn't something you'll be able to push through. The reason you might not ...

Oh wow, I find it super surprising that you can't get tested in Germany for free! That's awful. I still think that it is a good idea to try and work towards getting STI tests - perhaps if you are visiting another city where it is free you could schedule it in, or see if there are any low-cost or sli...

Hi kiiimiblea, The bleeding you get when on the pill starts as a result of switching from the hormonal pills to the placebo ones, exactly when it happens varies from person to person - it might happen on the first day, it might take a couple of days to kick in. After a good few cycles you'll start t...

Phantomdog is spot on here - getting a little warm briefly is no biggie, it's very high temperatures that are the problem. In fact, the box should have storage instructions on it, with a temperature range that you can check

Do you ever find that your periods ease off a bit and then start up again? If so, it could be that. If you're having unexplained bleeding that isn't normal for you and doesn't stop after a day or two though it may be worth seeing a healthcare provider just to double check that everything is okay.

Hi phantomdog, Ouch, yes I can see how having this phobia would make it feel difficult for your partner. I don't think though that that really changes the basic point that Heather made. This is still important enough that ypu get to set a hard limit. As you say, it's your health too. Has your parnte...

Hi Yunlad,

Yes, you can use cervical berriers with condoms. They are something that needs to be fitted by a doctor or nurse to make sure you get one the right size, so start by making an apointment with your healthcare provider first. Does that sound good?

Hi there, I hope you dont mind me dropping in before Heather gets here. I've been following this thread and it sounds like you're dealing with a LOT right now. I'm so sorry that things feel extra hopeless in this moment and for the general lack of consideration this person is showing. For what it's ...

Hi Lee! Welcome to the boards :D Gloves and lube are relatively easy to find in the drugstore or grocery store and aren't age restricted products, so your best option is to try and get hold of the real thing. I wouldn't suggest the saran wrap option. Whilst it can be used as a DIY dental dam, its no...

Hi Pan, you can wash the whole of your genitals with warm water and a little mild soap.

Hi Pan,

Many people find that if they're careful they can shave their pubic hair comfortably. However, there can be discomfort from shaving rash or ingrown hairs as well as risk of small cuts on tricky areas. You say it hurts so ask yourself - do you really want to shave?

Hi felixohno :) Welcome to the boards ! You know, sometimes if you're not feeling it you're just not feeling it. It sounds like you know how you feel when something DOES feel good, and you've tried all the basic things that make sure entry doesn't feel bad - like slowing down and making sure you're ...

<3 I'm sorry I missed this response earlier, so happy that you've found support here! Happy to listen any time you need us

Hi Thesk, most of the semen usually stays in the tip of the condom, but as long as it is inside the barrier and not leaking out that's okay. Make sure you pinch the air out of the tip of the condom when you put it on. We have a helpful article here: Condom Basics: A User's Manual Does this make sense?

Hi Heathella, It is possible to get an eye infection or pass on STIs via semen getting into the eye. It sounds like you did the right thing by washing your eyes out with water straight away when it happened. If it doesn't clear up in the next day or so, I'd suggest that you get it checked out by a h...

So on the subject of the sex you had with your friend, you asked "is this cheating?". I can't answer that without knowing what the boundaries you have in your relationship with your boyfriend are. For example, have you agreed to be sexually exclusive? If yes, then you broke that agreement ...

It's totally fine to drop in and out of these conversations on whatever timelines work for you, no need to apologise :) So it sounds like other people's opinions of relationships with an age gap are much more of a problem than the ACTUAL age gap in your ACTUAL relationship - is that right? It sucks ...

Hi Pan, those things are both myths. Regular sexual arousal, sexual activity or orgasm don't have any negative effects on physical or mental health - whatever your gender.

The instructions that came in the packet will tell you what the safe temperature range for storing your pills is!

It is scary to tell someone new that you are living with an STI, and unfortunately you can't control or even always predict their response. Yes, there is a risk of rejection - and I'm sure your recent experience with this partner is a reminder of that - but people with HIV date and have sex and fall...

Hi Lostand_found, It sounds like you're going through a lot right now, I'm sorry. The combination of a big change like leaving highschool and the figuring things out when you're learning a lot about yourself can certainly be overwhelming and disorienting. That combination of fear and isolation is re...

Hi Trentyp, Welcome to the boards :) Unfortunately, it's normal to have all kinds of worries about our bodies, but it doesn't need to be! Having a penis that is larger or smaller on average doesn't mean anything in particular for your sex life, since if we're talking about vaginal intercourse then v...