This is all so much about personal preferences and specific situations, there's not going to be a general answer for this. Instead, it's going to depend on the unique people involved in any given sexual relationship or interaction, their unique circumstances and also their unique preferences. For e...

I'm a 16 year old virgin,and recelty found out what said bumps are and that they are harmless.

I know that it's something that needs to be talked about before the heat of the moment (making sure that they aren't taken for an std) I'm just honestly afraid that they'll be a turnoff...

(before i say anything else I do want to say a few small things: I am a virgin and probably will be for a while...and i'm less knowledgeable. As well as if my partner talked with me about anything below i would have no problem with it, I respect that...) Personally I'm not going to get intimate with...