Sam, thank you so much for replying. I completely understand what you're getting at, and I greatly appreciate your advice. My problem is not just deciding when to break up, but also if I want to confront him about the situation right now - I don't have any fear for my physical safety, but the proble...

I deeply apologize if this is the wrong place for this post, and please feel free to remove it if it is. I've been going out with this guy for about 8 months now and I've been head over heels in love with him, I've liked him since our first year of college. Let's call him Bob. Bob had had a pretty r...