I just want to add a couple of things for you, Struggling101. Vaginismus isn't something I have struggled with myself, but I'm very familiar with it, and have talked a lot of people through it over the years. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this: it really is a big struggle for most people with ...

Hi Struggling101, First off, good job going to a healthcare provider when you thought something was wrong. That's a great step in taking care of yourself. With getting the dilators, have they given you any explanation for the delay in getting them to you? Something it might help you to do is also t...

Hello, I’m a 17 nearly 18 year old Female and I’ve tried to have sex 3 times, all a few weeks / months apart. Every time I’ve been in the mood and wanted it to happen, but I’ve always had an underlying fear of insertion. Every time we’ve tried my boyfriend has struggled to get his penis inside of me...

Welcome to the boards! thewrit3r is correct that there's no "strange" way to masturbate, and that there's a really really broad variety of ways that people do. How you masturbate is definitely not as unusual as you think it is, and there are anatomical reasons for that! The clitoris is ac...

Hi! First off, there's no "strange" way to masturbate. Everyone has different preferences and feel pleasure in various ways, so as long as you don't hurt yourself. Secondly, lots of kids masturbate so it's not just something older people do (I know because I did it when I was that young t...

I never thought I'd resort to this but here we go. I'm 17 years old and since as long as I can remember, I'm talking like aged 5 (although I didn't know what I was doing then,) I've masterbated in what I consider a really strange way. Basically I sit down on something fairly firm, just like you'd si...