Thanks for the link, communicating is super important, doesn't make it easy though, and I'm the worst of us two I think, but we're working on it, and have been for a while. I honestly don't think we would still be together and have sex if we didn't. Feel it and you'll figure it out is probably the b...

Besides the thing for his stomach two weeks ago, I don't think he has even taken a painkiller since we met, so no, no medications It kind of sounds like giving up, so I don't fancy having that talk with my boyfriend, I find it so tricky to suggest anything without making him feel bad about it. But y...

Hi Sam, thanks for your reply Not always, but quite regularly, personally I try to consiously set a different focus sometimes, which sometimes helps For my boyfriend, well, he's not here with me, so I can't really ask, but I think from what he said about it in the past, it's worse for him, which, we...

Hi I don't think I have a real concrete question, but I am lost, so any advice, links, similar stories, ... are very welcome, hence why I post here. Scarleteen has, like any reasonable sexual education site, a few topics and stories about not getting an erection and ed. However, it's usually a boy/m...