Hi crinklecat, In all honesty, the factors that make a friends with benefits scenario fun are the same things that make a more "serious" relationship fun: communication, respect, honesty, consent, and some level of attraction. If those things are present, then it's up to the people involv...

In which cases are friends with benefits relationships not OK? What makes friends with benefits relationships fun, versus what makes them not fun? To be specific about my situation, I made out with a guy at a party who I find very attractive. A friend of his told me that he thinks I'm cute too. I'm ...