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by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 4:55 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Pill question
Replies: 15
Views: 4675

Re: Pill question

Eight days in to your new pack, with those 8 all taken correctly, your pill should be at full effectiveness, yep.
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 4:53 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: BC Pills
Replies: 5
Views: 3310

Re: BC Pills

Ah, okay. The only purpose of placebo pills is to keep people in the habit of taking a pill every day :)

There's no guarantee you'd avoid a bleed when you skip the 7 days - some people have some bleeding anyway. Breakthrough bleeding during the second pack is also possible.
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 4:21 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: BC Pills
Replies: 5
Views: 3310

Re: BC Pills

That time window is fine for effectiveness from a combined pill. It's only at 12 hours later that a combined pill is properly late, in a way that can start to impact effectiveness. Some people do find that their bodies feel best when their pill-taking schedule is as regular as possible, and of cours...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 4:03 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I masturbated to someone else other than my boyfriend
Replies: 4
Views: 28526

Re: I masturbated to someone else other than my boyfriend

Too, it might help to know that fantasies - sexual or otherwise - aren't the same as real-life behaviour. It's common for people to have fantasies that they enjoy as a fantasy but which they don't want to do for real and wouldn't enjoy for real. In a fantasy, we can control and decide on every tiny ...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 3:43 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confused
Replies: 19
Views: 6208

Re: Confused

The doctor would need to tell you that the effectiveness may be affected IF you had those kinds of sex, otherwise they wouldn't be doing their job responsibly. If they didn't tell all their patients that, and then a patient started having those kinds of sex while on the antibiotics, that'd be bad fo...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 3:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confused
Replies: 19
Views: 6208

Re: Confused

If you click on your username on the boards and then look at all your posts, you can see all your conversations on the boards. Most types of antibiotics don't make a difference to the pill's effectiveness. For the few that do or may, I don't know the biology behind that - I think you'd need a medica...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 3:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Precum
Replies: 2
Views: 1720

Re: Precum

The most up-to-date science says that pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) does not, itself, contain sperm. However, it may pick up some sperm cells that are still hanging around in the urethra in the penis. That's the information we've been working with for some time now, so it's pretty unlikely that a staff/vo...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 2:50 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom Confusion
Replies: 13
Views: 3740

Re: Condom Confusion

I don't think there's anything further we can say that we haven't already. Too, given that you've said you have some anxiety, I think that at this point what you're asking has a lot more to do with anxiety than with needing actual information. We know that providing repeated reassurance to people wi...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 2:21 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Abuse and Assault
Replies: 10
Views: 3701

Re: Abuse and Assault

Welcome to Scarleteen, Brave1. If I can't sleep because my brain is stuck in some traumatic thoughts or feelings, I go for gentle distraction. Things that are enough to occupy the mind but not demanding, and that are pleasant and safe-feeling. For me, that's maybe some children's or YA books, or an ...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 2:06 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confused
Replies: 19
Views: 6208

Re: Confused

Having big worries about health is a common manifestation of anxiety. Anxiety, too, can cause physical symptoms, just like you've just described. May I make a couple of suggestions? First, did you have a look at the Anxiety Uk link Heather gave you? There's a lot of information and resources on that...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 1:45 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Question About Bleeding
Replies: 1
Views: 1287

Re: Question About Bleeding

Welcome to the boards, LollyBugg. When you're having intercourse, are you already very aroused and relaxed when you start? That can be one reason someone with a vagina finds intercourse uncomfortable: in its everyday state, the vaginal walls rest together. With increasing arousal and when someone's ...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 28, 2014 1:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom Confusion
Replies: 13
Views: 3740

Re: Condom Confusion

3 days isn't much at all. Even people who are usually really regular will have some variations occasionally in their lives. Too, are you counting from the last possible day you might have expected it? Because a little variation is simple a part of having a menstrual cycle - and having a body, even -...
by Redskies
Fri Dec 26, 2014 9:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom Confusion
Replies: 13
Views: 3740

Re: Condom Confusion

You're welcome! And of course, if you have any questions about any of the methods or want to discuss your choices with us, you're welcome back any time!
by Redskies
Fri Dec 26, 2014 9:11 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Increased discharge on pill
Replies: 3
Views: 2041

Re: Increased discharge on pill

It's a good idea to get routine testing once a year if you're sexually active, regardless of your or your partner's sexual history. It was my experience in the UK, too, that they were pretty lax about communicating that message generally. The good news is, when you seek that care out, it's nearly al...
by Redskies
Fri Dec 26, 2014 8:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom Confusion
Replies: 13
Views: 3740

Re: Condom Confusion

Sure! Have you already seen our Birth Control Bingo! series? If you haven't, maybe you'd like to start there and see what options you like the sound of and think might suit you? If you're in the US, you should be able to access all the options. You'll need to see a healthcare provider to get any of ...
by Redskies
Fri Dec 26, 2014 7:59 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom Confusion
Replies: 13
Views: 3740

Re: Condom Confusion

You're so welcome! Do you need any help with having a conversation about this with your boyfriend? We'd be happy to talk that through with you, if you'd like. Also happy to talk about your different options for contraception - the pill is certainly one option, but there are others too, including som...
by Redskies
Fri Dec 26, 2014 7:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: What is emergency contraception doing to my menstrual cycle?
Replies: 1
Views: 1125

Re: What is emergency contraception doing to my menstrual cy

Welcome to the boards, riverburning. It sounds like the pharmacist didn't tell you that some cycle wonkiness is very common after taking EC. There isn't one "normal" thing that happens to anyone's cycle after taking EC, but it's not unusual for it to be a bit different to normal temporaril...
by Redskies
Fri Dec 26, 2014 7:33 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom Confusion
Replies: 13
Views: 3740

Re: Condom Confusion

Not silly, no: we feel the way we feel. But, if you're using two methods - condoms and withdrawal - correctly, is pregnancy at all likely?- no. So, if you're feeling worried, your best next step is to think a bit about why you're worried. Whenever someone has intercourse, there can never be zero cha...
by Redskies
Tue Dec 23, 2014 8:08 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Taking combined pills back-to-back
Replies: 2
Views: 1596

Re: Taking combined pills back-to-back

Taking packs back-to-back won't have an effect on contraceptive coverage. If you - or she, or both - don't feel secure enough using just her pill, maybe you'd both like to use another method as well? We do suggest dual contraception for people who really do not want to become pregnant or co-create a...
by Redskies
Tue Dec 23, 2014 7:57 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Anxiety and Depression Peer Support
Replies: 5
Views: 4801

Re: Anxiety and Depression Peer Support

You can absolutely post in this thread :)
by Redskies
Sun Dec 21, 2014 9:15 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Unusual Spotting during Luteal Phase?
Replies: 2
Views: 1567

Re: Unusual Spotting during Luteal Phase?

Sometimes mid-cycle spotting just happens, and it's not an indication of anything being wrong. The stress you were under may well have had something to do with it. Given that you tested negative - I assume that those were all the tests your healthcare provider felt you needed - I'm not seeing any he...
by Redskies
Sun Dec 21, 2014 9:01 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Plan B
Replies: 6
Views: 2759

Re: Plan B

Hi Butterfly, welcome to the boards. You did have some pregnancy risk with the intercourse you had; the length of time doesn't make a difference to the risk. If he didn't ejaculate, the risk is lower than if he had. Did this intercourse happen within the last 120 hours? If it did, you can reduce the...
by Redskies
Fri Dec 19, 2014 8:59 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Is it Anatomy or Something Else Part 2; Question for Heather
Replies: 4
Views: 1905

Re: Is it Anatomy or Something Else Part 2; Question for Hea

(ICantThink, thank you So Much for the heads-up about the issue on the forums. We wouldn't have known so quickly if one of you hadn't told us! Everything obvious in the settings looked fine, but obviously there was/is indeed a hitch, which we've now found, somewhat hiding :) . We should have it sort...
by Redskies
Fri Dec 19, 2014 2:20 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Birth control storage
Replies: 2
Views: 2334

Re: Birth control storage

The temperature wouldn't be a problem, bathrooms don't get that hot :) - it's just the dampness. It really shouldn't be a problem, because pills are individually sealed in blister packs, so no dampness should get in. So, I don't think you need to be concerned about those two weeks. Not storing blist...
by Redskies
Tue Dec 16, 2014 3:45 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Questions on contraceptive pill
Replies: 85
Views: 24065

Re: Questions on contraceptive pill

Combined estrogen and progesterone methods: combined pill, patch, ring. Progesterone-only: progesterone-only pill (mini-pill), injection, implant. A hormonal IUD - Mirena - releases progesterone only locally in the uterus. Non-hormonal methods, like barrier methods, are also birth control, although ...