There are youtube videos online that could help teach you some moves! I think with a strip tease the first step is to be confident in yourself because that will show through and be attractive to your partner. Believe that you can embrace the rhythm and practice in front of a mirror at home to music ...

There are spinning poles that people can use to perform dancing on. Although I do not think that in strip clubs those are very popular. There are some poles that help to have a better grip also it just depends what the person would enjoy!