also, to clarify, we used on condoms/male condoms 2 out of those 3 times, and I'm on the pill, if that's any help.

So, I am 21 years old, genderqueer, use they/them pronouns, and as will soon be evident, i have a vagina. So, I was recently studying abroad in China and just got back about 10 days ago. My boyfriend (he's cis) and I have had sex 3 times since I came home, 4 times if you include one time back in Aug...