This is pretty much the exact thing that happened with me and the magical solution I found is to order stuff online! I'm a UK girl so I used Ann Summers and they have no way to police it so it was all good and I don't thinnnk I was breaking any laws (although it's not like I did extensive research.....

Oooh, I actually know this one! Ok, so it CAN BE safe to do if you look into it first, I've done it many times as a solitary practitioner (to look awesome {holy heck, tits look good in rope :D } and to just wear under clothes and feel all secretly kinky and whatnot) but there's some stuff you gotta ...