Hi Onionpie! I do watch pornography and you're right, it helps with concentration. I usually start masturbating when I feel aroused; though sometimes I'm "horny" but not exactly aroused so I use masturbation as a way to turn myself on, but since that hasn't worked so much in my favour, I t...

Hi Heather! I do say during sex what feels good or what doesn't feel good, or when I want to go down on him or him go down on me, or switch positions- anyway, basic sex communication. I told him that I think I feel shy because I don't have much of a feedback from him. And, for exemple, when I- a per...

Hi Danny! And thanks for your response. To answer your first question, yes, we have tried different kinds of sex, and I think the one that I find most enjoyble is manual, but again, no climax... We have been discussing this topic the entire day! In his words, he said that things get lost along the w...

Hi!I'm 18 year old girl and I've been with my boyfriend for an year. I lost my virginty with him and we've had a lot of problems (cheating...) that we had to overcome together and our relationship is maturing and blossoming beautifully- except for the fact that I can't seem to reach orgasm. This has...

It seems we have reached a solution! I have read the articles and will read the one you sent me. I think I have enough intimacy to talk about these things with him so as soon as I get through that iniciating the subject shyness it will be a breeze. I am also very much calmer now about the erection s...

Heather, I don't think there are sexual things that we do together that we both REALLY enjoy it, one as much as the other. Actually, the other day we tried a new position in which I could see he was really liking and so was I- he had an "orgasm face", but it didn't last all the way through...

First of all, thanks for both of your replies! I will definitely read the articles you sent. Redskies, in the matter of my feelings, I guess there are a few things bothering me... The thing is, because of his preference to oral sex, intercourse per say seems to be MY pleasure time, something only fo...

Hello Scarleteen staff! First of all- always proud and happy with this website, much love for it! So, a little info to fill you in. I (18y/o girl) have been dating this boy (18 y/o) for about 7 months now and we clearly love each other very much! I lost my virginty to him about 5 months ago. We have...

Thank you for your reply and advice, Sam! I'll read the articles you sent me and will try to have this talk with him.
Again, thanks for your calming words.
Cheers!

so, i've been dating this guy for about a month now and we both like each other very much. I was a virgin when I first started going out with him and I didn't want to have sex right away and I told him so, so whenever we fooled around I would do hand and blow jobs on him but he never orgasmed. So I ...

Thank you very much for your reply, Mo!
I guess it really is a matter of time and circumstance, I should really relax!
I will definitely read the links you sent me.
Thanks again for being so candid.
Cheers!

Hello, Scarleteen! I am a 16-year-old girl and I seem to have a hard time getting aroused-by aroused I mean that pumping of the labia, tingling, heavy breathing and lots of heat. P.s. I am a virgin. When I was about 13 I had this feeling for the first time, and while awake. I was reading a book and ...