UPDATE: I am buying that sex toy today x

I am a very anxious person to begin with, it's like my full time job to be anxious. I'm worried about a lot of things for instance not finding my clit (trying for 4 years), fingering (something I really want to try) and wondering why it doesn't feel good and so on and so forth.

I am relaxed and thinking of things that I do find sexy which is the problem x I have tried the shower head (once again does nothing) and I am thinking of actually buying my first sex toy next Wednesday which I am excited but nervous about. I was talking to my friend today about this and she gave me...

Hi, thanks for getting back to me. When I was watching the porn, I found that a circular motion on my vagina (using all 4 fingerS) felt quite nice but didn't really do a lot for me either. I've done the mirror thing before and that has not helped me in anyway (because I am technically blind as a bat...

Hi,

I've started to watch porn again after not watching it for a few years and I got turned on really quickly but I don't masturbate (because I find it hard to find clit) and I was wondering if there way any other ways to relieve myself?

Many thanks,
Writersblock x

I'm going into the store to buy it using cash since my mum can see the purchases I make with my card.

I am actually planning to buy my first sex toy next week since I am of age now. Just have to be quiet since I am living with room mates with super thin walls. I am looking for one for clitorial simulation since I am still nervous about inserting anything.

Thanks for the advice.
There is also the worry of bleeding. I've heard it happens to some people x I'm just a huge worrier.

I only "touch" myself when I'm aroused (after a good story) but still no luck. I also have to be careful since I am living in a university house with 3 other people.

Hi, thanks for getting back to me x

I'm mostly scared incase it hurts and it is by far the most sexual thing that I have ever done before so there is also first time nerves that go along with it.

I have tried looking in the mirror and looking at diagrams but I'm still unable to find it x

Hi! I'm an 18 years old and have thought about masturbating like everyone else in the world but I'm too scared to try anything. I can't really find my clit and I'm way too worried about fingering myself even though I want to try these things really badly because I do need to have a release of some k...