Honestly no, I’ve never told anyone else in my family. My mother would probably understand why I did it but she would also be upset with me for lying. My little sister still keeps in contact with our father and she still has a decent phone call-only relationship with him since we never see him. She ...

Hello. So the lie that I told is a huge one. I started this lie in the 6th grade, and now I’m a high school senior. My mom and dad were married in 6th grade and my dad was living at home with us for the first time since I was 6. Things got very bad between them and they decided to split. My dad atte...

I honestly don’t feel bad about the other things that we have done in the past. But the “Dry sex” where I wasn’t wearing underwear made me feel extremely guilty afterward. I feel dirty and I feel like yes, I’m still a virgin, but it feels like I was basically having sex except he was clothed and not...

So my boyfriend and I have been together 3 almost 4 years. I am a virgin. He is not. When I met him I had never done anything sexual at all. Now he has fingered me and given me oral quite a few times. We have not had sex though. (Vaginal sex) I felt guilty about everything we did at first but I real...

You’re right. The hardest part of it all is being the female in this situation. Because teenage boys are always expected to be having sex. They’re high fived for sleeping with lots of of people, or even just a few. It’s them “being a man”. Or “just doing what boys do”. But then when a girl the same ...

And about the consent of it all. I think I ultimately did it to make him happy. He did kind of have a way of making me feel guilty about making him wait. He was the only virgin in his friend group, which he said he got teased about a lot. So he often made me feel like I owed him something. So I admi...

Another thing I should add, I didn’t mean to make it seem like I am some type of crazy judgmental Christian. The truth is I’m not an extremely religious person. Meaning I do go to church and pray and read the Bible, but I’m not like a holy roller, who only talks about the Bible and tries to get my w...

I know how dumb and childish I probably sound and I really wish I didn’t feel this way. When I started dating my ex he seemed really happy about the fact that I hadn’t done those things before with anyone. He liked the fact that I hadn’t had anyone else touch me and etc. I guess I’m worried that if ...

So my long term boyfriend and I broke up. I’m not really even that sad about losing him anymore. I honestly think it was for the best because we were both kinda unhappy. It’s almost like we were staying together just for the amount of time we had been together. But I feel like I can never have anoth...

my boyfriend and I have been together for a really long time (3 years). And I love him a lot. He loves me too. We talk about our future a lot and we are both graduating soon so in a matter of time these plans we have will be set into motion. Only one problem. I’m in love with one of my friends. And ...

That’s exactly what all my friends tell me. It was at one point in time in our relationship that I was unhappy (for the same reason I am now) and we fought a lot and I decided to break it off with him (this was almost a year ago). The breakup lasted about a month and he always begged for another cha...

My boyfriend is very very busy. He works, plays sports, is involved in a lot of clubs at school, etc. I am involved in a few extracurricular things but I’m never really busy. And I’m at home almost everyday after school. The way a typical day goes is we go to school, he has some type of practice aft...

So if my hymen has started to wear away from natural things, then I’m not the only one? That’s happened to other girls my age too? Because the idea of it being normal/natural eases my mind a lot on the whole topic, and I might be able to stop worrying so much now.. so it’s normal for this to happen?...

I was too scared to ask her how I can figure out if my hymen is intact. Being that she is a women, one that I trust, and one who has obviously had sex before, she would help me know if it is or is not broken. I wanted to talk to her about it and i hoped maybe she could help me figure out what exactl...

Thank you. And yes it’s a big deal and here is why. Everyone associates the hymen with virginity, (me personally, I think that’s a load of garbage, and if mine were broken i would still call myself a virgin). The reason that’s a big deal Is because I come from a very religious family. I wear a purit...

Thank you. And yes it’s a big deal and here is why. Everyone associates the hymen with virginity, (me personally, I think that’s a load of garbage, and if mine were broken i would still call myself a virgin). The reason that’s a big deal Is because I come from a very religious family. I wear a purit...

Okay, first off let me say that I am not as eduacted as I should be on my body, more specifically down there. So I apologize in advance if I sound dumb when talking about this. Anyways, I’m a 16 year old virgin. I have a lot of friends who have had sex and one day my friends were talking about how i...