Ok, say geronimo!
We both know we need that talk, so approaching it shouldn't be too hard.
I'll think about what I need to say and we'll see what she has to say.

Hi Sam, thank you for your answer! Yes, you're right, it is probably as much about "relationship, period", as it is about orientation. We haven't discussed the possibility of a break so far, although a friend of mine also suggested it. Somehow break to me sounds like on-and-off highschool ...

I am not sure what exactly I want to ask, but maybe someone can say something helpful anyway :) The situation is as follows: I, 24, have been out as a lesbian for many years. Half a year ago I started dating a woman who has only just realized she is bi. We both weren't looking for a relationship in ...