I don't like to think that I am sexualizing anyone's body parts...I think I just find some certain ones more attractive than others. How can I appreciated someone's body without sexualizing it?

Oh right okay. I feel much better about it now, thanks. Hmm...Okay. I'm perfectly fine with the idea of finding women attractive. It's just that after seeing so many things on the internet about finding certain things attractive, I guess it just kind of made me feel bad about the way I felt and that...

Ah, so it's not a fetish? The thing I'm struggling with is a certain body part...So I don't know what attraction to that would be called.

Okay. I thought that was the case.

It's really difficult to talk about something when we don't know what it is we're talking about. But since it's obvious you feel very self-conscious about this, I'll do the best I can for now speaking in generalities. Fetishes -- the sexual attraction to, desire for, or arousal because of inanimate...

Hi, I'm new to this site so I'm not exactly sure if this is in the right place, but I have a question that's been bugging me for a while... After doing some research, I'm convinced I have a fetish. Apparently it's a pretty common one, but it makes me feel like a disgusting person and like I'm weird/...