Oh thanks! That's such a great relief!

Sorry for the late response! I don't really know what I want, in all honesty, I just feel like I'm sort of missing this part of myself that everyone else has. Like the part where you have to wanna be physical with people and watch porn and stuff. I don't really care about feeling like that or doing ...

That's a good idea. TBH, my friends aren't sex-crazy (or even relationship crazy). There are a few that my friend called "flaming heterosexuals" as he's tried to get with 6(?) girls this school year alone, but for the most part it's not too bad, so I don't know how much if I need to distan...

Hey, Raymie! While some people do like it when girls play 'hard to get', the stigma that EVERYONE likes it is 100% false! Your compassion and generosity will help you find that special someone, and some good bfs/gfs until you find the one. It may look bleak right now, but if you are patient, I genui...

First of all, I'm sorry about the paragraph breaks! I'll be better about that in the future! "But here's my big thing with this post: it just sounds like something you don't actually want or have an interest in right now. So, why focus on it so much? Why assume something is wrong? Why not just ...

So I don't know why, but like I don't really have the ability to sex except through a scientific lens. I used to not able to when I was younger, but for about a few years I just haven't been able to. Maybe it's cause it's less taboo and I understand it now, but I just can't. For example, I was onlin...

I think that they would, and that it sounds like a really good idea. And what you mean does make sense in your second paragraph, and it helps a lot!!

I totally understand it thanks a lot.

"It sounds like one of the things that might be stressing you out right now is that you're feeling like the point at which you'd have to have the "no, not into sex" conversation with a partner has suddenly moved closer due to the fact that you've discovered more people have sex in hig...

I totally get that. It's really nice to hear that I can have a relationship. It means a lot.

That does clarify it a lot, and I'd LOVE help with that. It's not that big of a deal, but it still gets on my nerves a little, so I'd love some help. And thanks a lot to wesley97!!!!

First off, I'd have to agree that 'normal' is a totally weird word now that I think about it! I meant that I wasn't gonna tell my parents, not my partner. I'd let my partner know, but just with my parents, I dunno. I know I SHOULD tell them when I have it figured out, it's just really scary and daun...

Also, I forgot to mention, but I have another factor giving me lots of stress. My parents and I were talking (I don't really remember about what) and they kind of out of the blue asked me if I was gay or what. I said 'no' and said 'it's either girls or nothing, haha!' They said that it definitely wa...

Hey, Crimson, (this only applies if you're christian, although I would have to assume that other religions have similar views on same-sex attraction, but I don't know) from what I've seen, you're about my age, and going through a similar thing as me. Of course, you're wondering if multiple genders a...

It's alright! Y'all have so much more important and urgent things to deal with, I really think that's a good metaphor, and I hadn't thought of it in that way. So I don't know if I can ask this, but since I'm pretty young (15, almost 16), I dont really know. Is it possible for an ace and a sexual per...

Thanks so much! Sorry for the late response, I've been a little unavailable recently. So I've already realized that I was a little different, just because my family and I are religious, and they take the "NO PREMARITAL SEX" thing pretty seriously and have drilled it into me and my brother ...

To Mo and Heather: Honestly, I don't know exactly what kind of help would help the most. I know that experience is the biggest helped but if this makes sense, I know so little about all of this, I don't know enough to even ask questions. I would (if possible) like any help possible about anything, b...

So I know I've posted something about this in the past as sort of a hypothetical, and if I should post this to there please just tell me and I'll do it. Basically I've heard of with a lot of asexual people, they have an "emperor's new clothes" style realization where they thought how they ...

I go to a small Texan private school, and I've never had any, really. It's not a crazy conservative or religious school, they just kinda dropped the ball on the subject. In 5th grade, we did about 2-4 weeks on anatomy (teacher showed us diagrams we had to label, and nothing else), but outside of tha...

I would agree with those points, definitely! And for the slowness thing, I agree with that too, I just was meaning for farther down the road, and I wanted to know what to expect. Sorry if I was unclear about that! And your message of people being so different is a GREAT point. Thanks for the quick r...

Okay, so I went out on a date with a friend of mine over the weekend. It was good and fun, and we're going out again this weekend! So we aren't really sure if we're a "thing" or not. We've had a conversation about it, and we aren't really sure what we are yet, since we've only been on one ...

And sorry for the late response I haven't been online recently cause of a HUGE algebra test I had to study for.

Thanks so much for the support for all of y'all! I think he's done now (hopefully). He was (idr if I mentioned this or no) a little snarky to a friend afterwards but he's leaving me and my friends alone to the most part, which is pretty good. I don't want to blow this up into a huge deal if he's don...

@Jacob if you're okay with explicit songs, I have a few raps that might do the trick. See You Again - Tyler, the Creator (if you can look past Tyler's pre coming out comments, this song is beautiful and I can't stop listening to it, and it's barely explicit), Ms. Jackson - OutKast (again, not too ex...

Additionally, i feel i should add about the whole “not wanting people to think i’m gay” thing, is that i’ve been a little bit unsure of what i am, orientation-wise. basically, and i know how dumb this sounds, believe me lol, but i’m pretty self conscious and i don’t want people figuring me out or th...