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by Shoop
Sun Mar 04, 2018 6:49 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do I go about finding a kinky relationship?
Replies: 4
Views: 3355

Re: How do I go about finding a kinky relationship?

To be clear, BDSM is not something only legal adults can do or that is strictly "for" adults, any more than any other kind of sex is. And vaginal intercourse can seriously injure people or change the course of their lives, so I think if we're going to talk about possible injury with any k...
by Shoop
Thu Mar 01, 2018 3:49 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type
Replies: 9
Views: 4603

Re: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type

I guess that my parents are abusive. Thank you for the articles. I have tried to reach out to other adults, especially those who are in involved with youth rights, because they might be able to sympathise with me. Currently, I plan on finishing my grades and trying to find part-time work, an ID, a p...
by Shoop
Thu Mar 01, 2018 1:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type
Replies: 9
Views: 4603

Re: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type

I could decide not to see them, but they might visit me. I don't think that I'll collect my clothes, if I decide to leave them. A part of me doesn't want to leave them. I think that they sympathise with me more than anyone else in my life. When I feel sad, they cheer me up and they do respect my con...
by Shoop
Thu Mar 01, 2018 12:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type
Replies: 9
Views: 4603

Re: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type

Sure, I don't mind. I'm sorry for the response rate. I was watching a comedy stand-up film with my mother. My partner and I don't live together. Their apartment is in the city because their job pays well. Everything that I've heard about the job seems dubious. That's a red flag, I guess. We're some ...
by Shoop
Thu Mar 01, 2018 11:13 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type
Replies: 9
Views: 4603

Re: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type

Before we dated, they lied to me in the form of gaslighting. It made me second-guess important incidents in my life that they were involved in. Later, they told me that they didn't like it, but it "met its purpose" and they no longer care what I think of it. I've discovered them lying abou...
by Shoop
Thu Mar 01, 2018 10:55 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do I go about finding a kinky relationship?
Replies: 4
Views: 3355

Re: How do I go about finding a kinky relationship?

At the risk of sounding hypocritical, I think that you may refrain from "hardcore" BDSM for now. Although I am fifteen-years-old, I have experience and research within the community. First of all, it is strictly for adults, who want to interact sexually. There is push-back against underage...
by Shoop
Thu Mar 01, 2018 10:40 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What relationships did you idolize as a kid?
Replies: 1
Views: 2027

Re: What relationships did you idolize as a kid?

This is quite embarrassing to say, but I like Magnus Bane and Alexander "Alec" Lightwood's relationship in Shadowhunters (TV). It's not necessarily that their relationship is perfect, but I can tell that the directors are doing their best to demonstrate a "healthy LGBT relationship&qu...
by Shoop
Thu Mar 01, 2018 10:32 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type
Replies: 9
Views: 4603

Partner is Unhealthy and Yet Partner is My Type

I've been dating someone recently. I would describe it as a fantasy, come to life. However, a fantasy stays a fantasy for a reason, I think. We have a lot of sexual chemistry and compatibility. I'm attracted to them. They're attracted to me. We like to communicate with each other and we have similar...