I talked to her and we ended up breaking up. She was way too nice to me and I feel really bad but she just wants what's best for me. I think we are going to be staying friends though, so that's good.

Thank you for all the advice. Unfortunately, it looks like I won't be able to talk to my girlfriend today, she's busy and won't be able to meet face-to-face for a private conversation.

Yes, sorry I was a bit incoherent. I really want to have this talk now, and in fact have already told my girlfriend that I want to talk privately for a while with her. I don't want to just avoid it like I did last time, no matter how much I might want to later. One thing though: I'm not exactly comi...

So I didn't actually end up doing that and now I have fallen in love with a guy who I can actually start a relationship with and I'm not going to do that yet first I'm going to tell all of this and confess everything to my gf and then ask what she wants and then make any decisions please wish me luc...

Nothing right now, but I'll post again if I think of anything. Thanks again.

She's really into social justice stuff, gay rights and civil rights stuff. I'm not afraid that she won't understand this kind of thing. She'll understand if I'm aromantic or whatever and she knows this stuff better than me. But this is my thinking right now, and from experience I know I'll have a lo...

Ok, I will. Thanks!

That sounds like a good idea, but what I'm afraid of is that she won't have time. Her family's schedule is really erratic, and I don't think we'll be able to set and keep a concrete date.

Next week, the last day for it is Saturday. I also have to give her her birthday gift then.

That does help, and it would be great if you could help me do that.

The big thing is I guess that my feelings change a lot from day-to-day, and I know my feelings change a lot, so I'm afraid to make any solid decisions because I might regret it later, no matter how terrible or guilty I feel in the moment. But it doesn't stop me from feeling guilty and terrible about...

I'm altogether just really confused about my feelings, and frustratingly, they change from day-to-day. Right now I feel way more optimistic about our relationship and have a different view on love. It's hard to get back into the mindset I had when I wrote the original post, but I think I was far mor...

I think I may have misrepresented myself a little. I think that I don't want to break up with her, but that I feel guilty about lying by omission to her, and for other things. I feel like this is a really unequal relationship where she's providing everything. She helps me a lot with my problems, and...

My girlfriend and I got together in 8th grade, when she "proposed to" and "married" me on a school field trip. Unfortunately, our schedules and parents meant that we only ever saw each other at school and never got to know each other that well. It's only recently, 10-11th grade t...