I think I see what you're saying, and I agree. I'll try to see sexuality as more of a spectrum rather than a binary (although it seems like most people view sexuality as either being "straight or not"). Thank you for your help!

Hi Scarleteen, I am a 16 year old female who identifies as straight. I have been what I consider to be sexually active (although not intercourse) and I have previously dated people. It has been two years since my last sexual activity. I have a gay friend (female) who is seventeen and she and three o...