You’re right. He used me. He hasn’t even talked to me since then and hasn’t even checked in on me. I don’t know why I let myself do something so stupid. I just was so attracted to him I lowered my needs for his. Ugh I just feel so stupid. It was my first time too and I wasted it on someone who doesn...

We talked about it and I insisted on using a condom but he kept saying he didn’t enjoy using them because latex nor did he enjoy them in general. He said we’d be fine because he knew what he was doing and that he wouldn’t continue if we used them. I did feel a bit intimidated. Also yes it would real...

Thank you so much! I feel a lot more calmer. Also yes I’d love to know more about how to prevent painful sex. We also didn’t use a condom and I want to get tested but I’m a little scared on how to do that with my mom because she doesn’t know I’m sexually active right now. I’m 17.

I just had sex for the first time on Monday. Well sort of. He tried to put his penis inside of me but when he first tried to enter it hurt pretty bad that we stopped before it got all the way in. We tried again a couple minutes later and same thing. We also didn’t use any lube. Shortly after I start...