I found it very difficult. I'm nearly 18 and only now have i stopped worrying and judging myself to the point where I would cry about it. I'm 5"4 and used to wish to be like the tall, elegant models in magazines when I was growing up around ages of 10-13 when my body-because of my age and me pe...

I agree Sunshine it is nice to discuss things with others and it is very helpful and to add after a year since my scare I am, and I mean it, I am 99% better. That 1% may always be there due to my anxiety that's part of who I am but I found asking medical professionals (like my usual doctor who has m...

Sorry what I meant was all the doctors who I like due to patient preference are male and.I wouldn't be comfortable with them examining my genitals.

Yeah I'm trying to explain as well as I can but I'm not very good at explaining via message. No I haven't I don't feel comfortable for someone other than myself or my partner to look there and the doctors I prefer because of patient preference are male :/ I just wondered if what I described was incl...

Yes I've looked at all the anatomy posts but I still don't know if this is a thing or normal :/ . I've never had any exam.on my genitals and I don't get.smear tests until.I'm.in my 20s in the UK. I've been trying to figure out tampons for months this is confusing me, just wondered whether you guys k...

Hi, I've been confused about my genitals when.I look down there I see all the.normal parts, clitorous, both labia and the urethra but then when I look where my vagina is meant to be I'm confused. Near my anus is a hole which there is white fluid, discharge I'm.assuming this hole.is my vagina entranc...

Yes that makes sense and yeah manual is easy but my partner had noticed the "object" that I was talking about but apart from that it makes sense why I struggle with tampons because they just get kinda stuck (sorry if that's a bit descriptive) due to lack of lubrication etc.

If you are unable to use tampons but a partner can perform manual sex on you, does that just mean that being aroused and lubricated is the issue when attempting to insert a tampon?

Thankyou for the links, I have tried to determine where it was on the diagram and I did struggle, it's odd because I always thought your vagina would be alot longer from.seeing biological diagrams in school I guess which showed them being very long in length and not being entirely visible it's not l...

My cervix really? So my vagina is only like what a inch in length? I thought the cervix was alot further in? I don't understand? Thankyou for answering my question tho

Hi, Iam a bit confused about my anatomy of my genitals as I remember what was said on here previously but that's confused me now. I thought I had two openings but I actually think I've just one small one with the opening smaller than the width of a pinky finger and as mentioned before I am unable to...

Yeah I knew that would be the result because of things mentioned above and the fact my current partner has been my only partner my whole.life and my partner has never done anything sexual.except.kissing with lips.with others

Glad to have helped with my experience niknik :-) well there are many others who have worried about dry humping with clothing on, and there's even a single article/post about pants and pregnancy the " you cannot become pregnant with pants" one ( i think that's the correct name of it) which...

My test came back negative ( all clear) which is good.

Hi niknik, that's fine I've been experiencing these scares for eight months and wanted to share my experience and help others so I'm glad I helped :) I also want to add what i didnt put into my previous post about dry humping: back when I was concerned about dry humping I was at the doctors due to i...

I can relate to pregnancy scares, I used to panicked about everything making it hard for me because i enjoyed what i was doing and sharing the experience with my partner, yet i would worry after and that would make it hard as I felt i really enjoyed things. This would then lead to me telling my part...

Oh I get it now that makes sense now thank you

Thankyou, I read through and am a bit confused, it says unlikely they would have an STI then says however some are.transmitted through non sexual contact? if that's true then surely no one.is 100% safe from STIs

Hi, I recently went to the doctors to get a repeat prescription for the pill and because I am.using the pill.she asked me to take.a.Chlamydia test, even when I haven't had penis in vagina intercourse, I agreed to it as I thought I might as well see what it's like and have had unprotected oral so tho...

Thankyou for your reply. That makes so much sense as no matter what I do I cannot use a tampon. Does the corona ever wear away?

Hi, recently I have noticed something that I am a bit worried about with my body and it's kind of embarrassing for me to say but I'm not sire about it so here goes. When I was trying to use a tampon one day and had on me a mirror, I noticed something about.my genitals that I'm not sure is normal. Wh...

Stress does alot of that listed to me (digestion issues-ibs-for eg)good that people can look at this and understand a bit more about what an impact stress can have

Hey, I have been on the pill for four months now and have started my fifth months worth of pills. Before I started the pill my periods had a wide range of variety in terms.of the number of days I would have them and the PMS symptoms I would get. Before I started the pill my periods had gone down fro...

Yeah, I need to run up with them as I haven't had a response for my anxiety yet. Also, Im still getting used to the pill and wondered if it was normal for my bleeds to be very watery compared to my periods when I wasn't taking the pill, which were a lot thicker. I know that the pill thins the lining...

So what your saying is that if my bleeds are getting shorter in duration then thats sign normal for the pill, the bleeds have slowly reduced I track their regularity and did two years before I started the pill so I have learnt what my bleeds would be like. I have been using the pill for three month ...