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by Ashleah
Mon Dec 14, 2015 9:42 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I have several important questions... mostly about a friend
Replies: 3
Views: 1804

Re: I have several important questions... mostly about a friend

Hi MMO_Lover, Welcome to the boards! A lot of the questions you have seem to focus on "is this normal?" When it comes to feelings, relationships, sex, and the body more often than not the answer is normal looks different depending on the person. Sure when it comes to bodies there might be ...
by Ashleah
Tue Dec 08, 2015 12:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: clitoral hood is swollen on one side
Replies: 5
Views: 41541

Re: clitoral hood is swollen on one side

Hi Kira,

If this is still worrying you then you can go back to your doctor!
by Ashleah
Wed Nov 25, 2015 9:35 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Just really good friends or something more?
Replies: 6
Views: 3251

Re: Just really good friends or something more?

Hey Kirimele, Welcome to the boards! I know you want to avoid talking to him about this, but that is really the only way for you to know for sure what he is feeling. Do you feel that if he is not interested in a romantic relationship that you would not want to his friend? I ask because liking someon...
by Ashleah
Mon Nov 23, 2015 6:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: What to say?
Replies: 22
Views: 6262

Re: What to say?

Just want to be clear, so can you explain what you mean when you say that y'all weren't successful? Do you mean he did not ejaculate?
by Ashleah
Tue Nov 17, 2015 3:27 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Help! dad in denial
Replies: 4
Views: 1524

Re: Help! dad in denial

Hi Pennypanda, I don't blame you for not wanting to have that conversation with your dad, especially with him being so non-supportive. It sounds like he is applying his own experiences and beliefs to your relationship even though in reality it is not about him. It can be hurtful when parents act thi...
by Ashleah
Fri Nov 13, 2015 12:37 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I need some suggestions
Replies: 35
Views: 9410

Re: I need some suggestions

Hi Shorty, Heather will be away for most of the day so I just wanted to let you know that your message isn't being ignored. Once she gets back I'm sure she will have more to add. I've been following the conversation and want to jump in with a suggestion (forgive me if it's already been made). I thin...
by Ashleah
Tue Nov 10, 2015 1:04 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: November Blues
Replies: 10
Views: 5150

Re: November Blues

One thing that I have noticed about you from reading your post is that you are extremely compassionate, empathetic, and understanding. I look forward to reading your kind (and more importantly, genuine) responses to other users so it makes me happy to hear that you have a friend who can offer you a ...
by Ashleah
Tue Nov 10, 2015 12:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Late with 5th pill in pack
Replies: 3
Views: 1610

Re: Late with 5th pill in pack

Hi Bryann, For the combination pill there is a 12 hr grace period before the pill is considered late and 24 hrs before it is considered missed. So if she took her pill within that window of time then the effectiveness is not likely compromised much and EC would not offer additional protection. I wou...
by Ashleah
Fri Nov 06, 2015 3:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Depo provera and unprotected sex
Replies: 1
Views: 1639

Re: Depo provera and unprotected sex

Hi Shmd, Welcome to the boards. We can't tell you whether to worry or not. That really is about what level of protection makes you feel comfortable. I will say that you want to feel good and at ease when it comes to your birth control. If he doesn't ejaculate, you are using the withdrawal method in ...
by Ashleah
Tue Nov 03, 2015 1:59 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Thinking about trying something new?
Replies: 6
Views: 2976

Re: Thinking about trying something new?

Hey Nervousone, Even though your questions are different, I see a common theme of trying to figure out how to communicate about sex. Last time Sam gave you a really great article on how to talk about sex (here it is again: Be a Blabbermouth There isn't much more I can add, but I do think it can be h...
by Ashleah
Wed Oct 21, 2015 1:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Early Period?
Replies: 1
Views: 1301

Re: Early Period?

Hi,

Doesn't sound like you have anything to be concerned about! There is typically a 3-4 day standard deviation between cycles, so a starting a few days before or after is not unusual.
by Ashleah
Mon Oct 19, 2015 2:46 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Betrayed
Replies: 51
Views: 13369

Re: Betrayed

Hi Bigbywolf, I'm sorry to see that you are still feeling bad about the break up and your ex but it is completely normal to need time. With your friends, it can be tricky to navigate after a break up if you had mutual friends but it is possible. Just because they continue to have a relationship with...
by Ashleah
Mon Oct 19, 2015 2:28 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Plan b while on depo?
Replies: 5
Views: 8655

Re: Plan b while on depo?

Not necessarily, but they are both hormonal methods that use progesterone!

If you like more information on depo or the implant you can check out Birth Control Bingo: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexua ... trol_bingo
by Ashleah
Wed Oct 14, 2015 12:54 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Herpes?
Replies: 1
Views: 1149

Re: Herpes?

Hi Pennypanda,

The best thing to do is follow up with your doctor!
by Ashleah
Wed Oct 14, 2015 12:19 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Experimenting with Same Sex Sex... How to Talk to my Friends
Replies: 1
Views: 2788

Re: Experimenting with Same Sex Sex... How to Talk to my Fri

I think you can say exactly what you have said here! While some feel comfortable and want to have a label for their identity, others do not. Labels are optional, self defined, and flexible. It's completely up to you. And even if you do decide that you want to use a label, that does not mean that you...
by Ashleah
Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:00 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: condoms = casual?
Replies: 5
Views: 4333

Re: condoms = casual?

I've heard this sentiment before. But I've heard just as many people say that you use condoms for a person that you are committed too, while sex without a condom is for more casual encounters. In this case, the condom is viewed as a way to "protect" the person you care about.
by Ashleah
Mon Oct 05, 2015 1:03 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I just need a few things answered ASAP please!
Replies: 4
Views: 1766

Re: I just need a few things answered ASAP please!

Also, it takes much longer than a few hours for a pregnancy to occur so even if a person were to become pregnant, they would not experience any related symptoms immediately following the incident.
by Ashleah
Mon Oct 05, 2015 12:45 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I just need a few things answered ASAP please!
Replies: 4
Views: 1766

Re: I just need a few things answered ASAP please!

Hi, Welcome to the boards. Regarding the bleeding and soreness, are you up to date on your sexual healthcare and testing? If not, I would recommend that you check in with a doctor. We ask users to start with one of the following links when they have questions about pregnancy risk: http://www.scarlet...
by Ashleah
Wed Sep 30, 2015 12:35 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does my ex want me back?
Replies: 1
Views: 1580

Re: Does my ex want me back?

Hi Confusedwoman12, The only person that can answer this question for you is your ex! We, and even you, can't know what he is feeling. Although I know it can feel awkward, I always think it is best to just get everything out on the table. If it is a conversation you are comfortable having you can ju...
by Ashleah
Wed Sep 30, 2015 11:09 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What is love?
Replies: 3
Views: 2214

What is love?

The word love gets thrown around a lot but what does it actually mean? I love my husband, I love my children, I love my friends, and I love brownies with fudge icing. And while I love all of these people/things, the way I feel about each is very different! So what does it really mean to love someone...
by Ashleah
Wed Sep 30, 2015 10:43 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Hair colors lol
Replies: 8
Views: 4529

Re: Hair colors lol

This is a fun topic! My most recent hair change has been the biggest and somewhat of a journey! About a year ago, I stopped getting relaxers (chemically straightens course/curly hair) so that I could wear my natural hair. Natural basically being that you do not permanently change the texture of your...
by Ashleah
Mon Sep 28, 2015 3:55 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: digestive issues and the pill.
Replies: 3
Views: 1459

Re: digestive issues and the pill.

Hi Kirei, Is there a reason you do not feel confident in the information you got from your pharmacist and nurse? I think you can and should trust what you have been told by medical professionals!!! They have given you information for you and your situation where as anything you have looked up on the...
by Ashleah
Mon Sep 28, 2015 2:47 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: How Easy or Hard is it for you to love your body?
Replies: 18
Views: 13050

Re: How Easy or Hard is it for you to love your body?

I really like your mantra Sunshine! What you said about appreciating your body for how it functions vs. physical appearance really sticks out to me! If I'm being honest, the way I view my body is typically more attached to physical appearance but more about function lately having just had a baby. As...
by Ashleah
Fri Sep 04, 2015 1:51 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: lighter flow after sex
Replies: 4
Views: 1379

Re: lighter flow after sex

Hi Dino12, Doesn't sound like there is anything to worry about. I can't say for sure why your flow has slowed down. It could just be that time has passed. Even so, it is completely normal for periods to be different, even from day to day. Sex doesn't affect your period for the most part (with the ex...
by Ashleah
Fri Sep 04, 2015 1:40 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Intimacy and emotional needs
Replies: 2
Views: 2118

Re: Intimacy and emotional needs

Hi LittleEloise, Wanting intimacy is completely normal! I agree with Sunshine that you should talk to your partner about how you feel. Sounds like you are trying to decide what ways you want to be sexually intimate with your partner. We have A LOT of great stuff on the main site that might help you ...