Heather,
Im currently calling the hospital, I didnt even think of this. And yeah I basically know nothing about this guy so I shouldn't have been stupid and not used protection. Im currently on Nexplanon and he finished on me not in me so I should be okay on that front.

@ Sian, Yes I did feel present and engaged and I wanted it, it just felt weird afterwards. What you are saying makes sense though because for most of my life my parents and family painted sex as a very negative thing and I feel like part of healing from assault is also letting go of other negative f...

Scarleteen, I decided to have sex for the second time because I didn't get to consent the first time (see other posts) and I felt like I needed to take that back. I really liked this guy and we hit it off so I decided to sleep with him. The sex was great and I knew it would be a one night stand, whi...

I went home about a week ago and I was stressed first but then I realized that because I had my friends and family by my side supporting me I did not need to feel nervous because they would have helped me if they saw him trying to socialize with me (we were at our old high school's football game bec...

Yeah I feel like setting boundaries is a good way to start and explaining more later on seems like a good way to go, thank you

Thank you for replying to me. Since I posted this I called multiple Assault hotlines and have blocked both my abuser and all of our mutual friends that took his side. I told my parents what happened, but I did not report to the police because I do not have enough evidence to go after him, unfortunat...

Im an 18 y/o Female, straight, she/her

Scarleteen, I was Sexually Assaulted in June 2018 and I have been really working hard to cope and heal. I have made a lot of progress since telling my parents and I have moved away to go to college in order to get away from my abuser. I am no longer afraid of him or his friends, and I actually have ...

This has been weighing on my thoughts lately. I don't know if I'm being immature or if theres actually good reasoning behind this. I was making out with my (now ex) boyfriend in his house on his bed. Suddenly he was fully undressed and reaching for a condom. I had let him rub his penis over my clito...