Hi- sorry if this doesn't belong here, I just have been unsure about it for a long time and wanted to get some perspective. I'm 23, lesbian, and I don't really get aroused during sex. I don't consider myself asexual (nor am I interested in defining myself in those terms) and I am able to get aroused...

When I first started thinking about this I was very quick to absolve my partner of all blame, and I still hold that she did not intend to pressure me or ignore any red flags, and that she genuinely cared about my comfort. After a lot of consideration I think that whether or not she meant to, she was...

Hi Siân, thanks for getting back to me so quickly. Ideally I think I would change doctors, but I'm concerned about both discussing it with my mother, and the process of finding one. I don't really know how one shops for gynecologists and the last thing I want is to visit another doctor and find out ...

I will try to be as non-graphic as possible in this post. Sorry if it's long, or inappropriate. I really don't know where else to go. I have no one to talk to about this. I'm 19 years old, survivor of sexual assault. It happened when I was a young teen and since then I have dated, but most of those ...

tw for mention of assault i guess. also sorry this is really long. I'm 19 years old and I've been to the gynecologist twice- the first was when I was 17 or so with a doctor who specialized in teens, and performed an external and breast exam. I had a lot of anxiety about this exam but it was ultimate...