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- Mon Sep 23, 2019 5:13 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I can't tell if I should be worried
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Re: I can't tell if I should be worried
ok thank you
- Sun Sep 22, 2019 2:59 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I can't tell if I should be worried
- Replies: 4
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Re: I can't tell if I should be worried
right, I'm sorry. all I wanted to know was if this was considered a risk and if this could possibly turn into a pregnancy.
- Sun Sep 22, 2019 7:21 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I can't tell if I should be worried
- Replies: 4
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I can't tell if I should be worried
my boyfriend and i had sex yesterday afternoon. he used a condom. put it on correctly before he went inside me, kept it on the whole time, it didn't break, and he pulled out way before he came. however, he freaked out because there was precum in the shaft area of the condom that he wasn't sure if th...
- Fri Sep 06, 2019 4:38 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I am so scared
- Replies: 3
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Re: I am so scared
I have also been under extreme stress the past 2 weeks with starting school again and also worrying about this to the point of having panic attacks at least once a day. I was supposed to have a counseling appointment but it got cancelled.
- Fri Sep 06, 2019 4:36 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I am so scared
- Replies: 3
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Re: I am so scared
I have also been under extreme stress the past 2 weeks with starting school again and also worrying about this to the point of having panic attacks at least once a day. I was supposed to have a counseling appointment but it got cancelled.
- Fri Sep 06, 2019 4:32 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I am so scared
- Replies: 3
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I am so scared
2 weeks ago I had sex with a condom used correctly, and he pulled out before he ejaculated. my period is due today (though I have irregular cycles) and it has not come yet. my cycles have been 23-25 days for the last 4 cycles but now its day 25 and it still hasn't come. I am having all my normal pms...
risk?
last night I had sex with my boyfriend, I was on my third day of my period. about 10 min into it we realized the condom had slipped halfway down his shaft, he had not ejaculated yet, and I am not sure exactly when it had slipped down. it was still on, just partway hanging off. right after this he sw...
fear
hi. 2 weeks ago as of tomorrow, I had sex with a guy I have been seeing. he used a condom and was careful, because he knows I get nervous sometimes. it only lasted about a minute or 2 and he didn't cum. however I noticed when he pulled out the condom had slid up a little bit and I can't tell if it h...
Re: confused
yes there are. I have a lot of issues with anxiety, and issues with my family. also, at one point (I have been freaked out about this for awhile) I was freaked out and took a pregnancy test because my friend knew I was ok and convinced me to take it so that I could convince myself. I got my period t...
Re: confused
how can I stop fixating on this? I know I'm being irrational
confused
I have a general question; I was reading some of the articles on here and I was wondering if the dry sex no risk of pregnancy still counted if both the male and the female were wearing underwear. I'm pretty sure I'm fine, I just want to be sure. also, if the guy was only wearing a new, unused, non e...
- Tue Oct 02, 2018 6:09 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
Re: first time guilt
hi sorry, this thread hasn't been used for awhile. but well I have irregular periods and wasn't expecting mine for another 5-10 days, but this morning I woke up to brown blood, a really light flow. I've had this once before, but when my period was late. I have no cramps or anything which is super st...
- Mon Sep 17, 2018 1:45 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
Re: first time guilt
yes, that is what I was thinking too - on the same day that we did this, we agreed to not do it again until marriage, and do other things that would not present this risk. he was more than welcoming of the idea, as he is just as worried as I am when it comes to the possibility of that outcome, which...
- Sun Sep 16, 2018 11:21 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
Re: first time guilt
also I have just a general question about condoms. it says online that they are only about 98%effective when used perfectly. where does this 2% come from, if they are supposed to prevent pregnancy when used correctly? obviously I know I have nothing to worry about due to my circumstances, I am just ...
- Sun Sep 16, 2018 9:01 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
Re: first time guilt
sorry I did not see all the messages before I sent the last one, my computer is weird. okay, thank you so much for the reassurance. I come from a home where accidentally falling pregnant before marriage is quite literally the end of the world so it stresses me out a tiny bit, and I keep having night...
- Sat Sep 15, 2018 1:18 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
Re: first time guilt
to ask the above question again: should I worry about pregnancy given the circumstances in the first message? In all opinions given to me by others in real life they think I am fine, because he didn't cum (neither inside me, nor at any time before or after) and was wearing a condom correctly. I just...
- Sat Sep 15, 2018 8:32 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
Re: first time guilt
sorry I have one more question. obviously you can't tell me whether I am/going to become pregnant due to this incident, but given the circumstances listed in my first post, do you think I should be worried about it? I have access to plan b, and it wouldn't be taken until 72 hours later. but is it so...
- Fri Sep 14, 2018 7:18 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
Re: first time guilt
that all makes sense. thank you for taking the time to answer this and providing encouragement and helpful words. I appreciate it. hopefully I can work through it eventually. I hate feeling like this. I know I shouldn't stress because like you said I didn't hurt anyone. and also it happened and is i...
- Thu Sep 13, 2018 6:11 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: first time guilt
- Replies: 15
- Views: 5573
first time guilt
hi. last night, me and my boyfriend of a year had sex for the first time. he used a condom, didn't cum, and it lasted at most a minute due to me wanting to stop. I had thought I was ready for it but I guess I wasnt. I am not quite worried about being pregnant (though the thought does cross my mind a...