Hey shypixie -- You live with your sister, right? Those situations can be very complicated, here's how you can make a safety plan in that situation . It focuses more about feeling safe even if actually leaving is difficult. I also do not know how to drive or have a car, and I understand how much th...

Hi there shypixie, I hope the article is helpful to you, and there is no need to apologies for the timing of your reply, we understand everyone has their own schedules, time it takes to consider our responses, and windows of time where they feel they can access our services safely. I'm sorry to hea...

Hi shypixie, It really sucks that your sister has a pattern of bullying you, and that you end up feeling sad and anxious as a result. Have you told anyone else about her behavior? Does she doe it where other people can see or hear it or just when the two of you are alone? I also want to give you th...

It’s more than fine not to know which label feels right! Like Sam said, our sexualities aren’t finite and unchangeable - as we go through life, we can decide which label feels better for us at the time (if any label). In deciphering what pansexual and bisexual mean, this article is great - “What’s ...

Hi shypixie, So, the difference between those terms comes from people differentiating between romantic and sexual attraction. For some people, that's a really noticeable difference in how they experience desire, but for others it's a small to negligible one. So, that's why you'll see those two term...

Hey shypixie -- I'm so sorry your sister outted you to your mom without your consent. I agree that talking with your mom sounds like an important thing to do. If you see this in time, you may want to check out Becoming Out: a totally non-exhaustive, step by step guide to coming out for some tips ab...

Hi shypixie, have you had a chance to talk to your mom about it? Regarding making friends, there are some great online spaces for queer folks we can suggest, is that something you're interested in? In person, a good way to make friends is with something in common - you can join a club or group of s...

I'm so sorry that your sisters are not only unsupportive but, in at least one case, actively hostile towards you. When you combine that with how isolated it sounds like you are, I completely understand how you're feeling so low. I have a few different suggestions about how to address this that I'm ...

Hi Shypixie, I'm so sorry your sister has created this situation, and that you're living in a space where you know you don't have the freedom to safely explore those questions you have about your sexual orientation. Has anyone's behavior towards you changed since you overheard that conversation? An...

This happened two months ago. I heard my sister having a conversation with my mom. She told her that I am a lesbian. I'm really really scared and angry and depressed about it. I don't know how my sister found out. I don't know what to do? My mom hasn't said anything to me about it. But I'm afraid. B...

I need advice. I am a bisexual girl. I am 27 years old. I have never kissed anyone or dated anyone before. I'm starting to be interested in dating. I really want a girlfriend. I have no friends. I am currently living with my mom and sisters. They are very homophobic. My family are Christians. I am v...

Okay! In terms of in-person groups, are you comfortable giving us your state or zipcode so we can help you locate them (it's okay if not)? You can also "LGBT groups" plus your location and see what comes up as a resource. For online groups, there are few different ones to try. This talkli...

Mo wrote:That sounds like a good idea! Do you need any help brainstorming where to look for online or in-person groups to investigate?

Hi where can I find groups to join online? And where can I find groups where I live?

Hi shypixie, I hear you - I'm shy on the phone, too! Fortunately there are other resources that you can use via text. If you're finding yourself in crisis, or thinking about self-harming, you can reach out to the Crisis Text Line (https://www.crisistextline.org/) by texting to 741741 (in the USA). ...

Glad to hear you're receiving at least some support. If that doctor isn't someone like a counselor or therapist, then a sound next step would be to look into that kind of resource. That way, you have a space where you can address those self-harm urges with someone who is trained to help you address...

Hi Shypixie, We're glad you found us as well! It sounds like you're dealing with a really rough combination of things. Of those issues you mentioned, is there one that it would be most helpful for us to talk about first? I do want to ask, are you getting any kind of formal, professional support aro...

Hi I am new to this forum. I created an account a while ago but haven't used it until now. I just wanted to say Hi. I am female from the USA. I am in my 20s. My hobbies are drawing, writing, knitting, reading, listening to music. I am glad I found this website. I feel alone all the time. I feel like...