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by Peonies
Wed Nov 09, 2016 4:19 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Need Help with Therapist Issue (TW: abuse, abandonment)
Replies: 5
Views: 2835

Re: Need Help with Therapist Issue (TW: abuse, abandonment)

Thanks for the reply!

It has been reported, it happened a few years ago but I am still very scarred over the whole ordeal. I do have a doctor that I trust to ask, is it OK to just call with that type of question? I am not due for an appointment for a long time.

Thanks again!
by Peonies
Tue Nov 08, 2016 4:25 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Need Help with Therapist Issue (TW: abuse, abandonment)
Replies: 5
Views: 2835

Need Help with Therapist Issue (TW: abuse, abandonment)

Hello everyone! I need some pointers in finding a new therapist. To make a long story short, I saw a therapist for about a year over an abusive ex. Then, the therapist absolutely manipulated me and then later tried to have an inappropriate relationship with me after I had quit going. Now my relation...
by Peonies
Sun Oct 30, 2016 5:32 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Let's talk about periods :-)
Replies: 0
Views: 2535

Let's talk about periods :-)

For those users who have periods, what are some of your favorite period self care tips? I use period time as a time for a little extra self care! I need to reward myself for all the crazy awesome things my body can do. I like to -relax with a heat pack on my lower back -make a foot soak -Put in one ...
by Peonies
Tue Jun 14, 2016 9:11 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Orlando
Replies: 14
Views: 6606

Re: Orlando

I still don't know how to process this. This happens when I hear of most violent attacks in the news, but this time it really hit home for me. These were young adults my age who were out having fun with friends and the types of places I visit. Other than the grief for the lives lost, I am realizing ...
by Peonies
Sat Mar 26, 2016 12:27 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Discouraging Experience
Replies: 1
Views: 3319

Discouraging Experience

Hello all! This is formerly CraftyKid, now under a new name because I am in a gardening mood. :mrgreen: Just venting here about a very discouraging experience I had my doctors office. I just called to schedule my yearly exam for this summer. I normally have it in March, but I can't take off work to ...
by Peonies
Wed May 20, 2015 8:00 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Any gardeners out there?
Replies: 5
Views: 4225

Re: Any gardeners out there?

That is awesome Heather! :D I live rurally as well and I enjoy the room it provides for planting! I love the sensory experience of gardening as well. It helps me "get back to nature"! A watering system would be nice - watering (as you know) takes a great deal of time! Not that I mind it, I...
by Peonies
Wed May 20, 2015 7:54 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Song Criticizing Gender Roles
Replies: 7
Views: 5908

Re: Song Criticizing Gender Roles

Awesome video and song! That's too cool that a 15 year old created that!
by Peonies
Tue May 19, 2015 7:48 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: One method or two?
Replies: 10
Views: 5686

Re: One method or two?

Thanks Heather!

You've given me some things to consider and bring up to my doctor in a few weeks. :)
by Peonies
Tue May 19, 2015 2:51 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: One method or two?
Replies: 10
Views: 5686

Re: One method or two?

Thank you for your reply squintern! I like to hear real-life uses of birth control instead of advertisements and such. That's good to hear that you've had a positive experience with the implant. I am definitely considering it as a method of birth control for me. Heather - So I have been researching ...
by Peonies
Sun May 17, 2015 6:39 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Share Your Pregnancy Scare Experiences & Advice
Replies: 45
Views: 236022

Re: Share Your Pregnancy Scare Experiences & Advice

In my time of being sexually active, I have had my share of pregnancy scares. I do want to have kids, but I'm not at the point of my life yet where it is a real option for me. As someone who has suffered from anxiety a lot in their life, I can understand where you or other users here are coming from...
by Peonies
Sun May 17, 2015 6:22 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: What were some incorrect things you believed about sex?
Replies: 4
Views: 4332

Re: What were some incorrect things you believed about sex?

Oh and also - if you had sex you WOULD DEFINITELY become pregnant. Like, every time you had sex.
by Peonies
Sun May 17, 2015 6:21 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: What were some incorrect things you believed about sex?
Replies: 4
Views: 4332

Re: What were some incorrect things you believed about sex?

Up until the time I was about 8 or 9, I thought that when you wanted to have a baby, you went to the doctor and got a shot in the stomach! That was something I formulated in my own mind though. :lol: Some of the more serious things though came from poor sex ed later on in school. I believed that bir...
by Peonies
Sun May 17, 2015 4:17 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: One method or two?
Replies: 10
Views: 5686

Re: One method or two?

Heather - yes!
by Peonies
Sun May 17, 2015 5:23 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: One method or two?
Replies: 10
Views: 5686

Re: One method or two?

squintern,

Do you still have a withdrawal bleed with the implant? I'm sure it varies for each person, but I'm just curious. You say you didn't have any bad side effects which is great? How was it when you first got it?
by Peonies
Sat May 16, 2015 4:15 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: One method or two?
Replies: 10
Views: 5686

Re: One method or two?

Hi Heather! I was actually just about to make a thread about switching to a new form of birth control and trying to figure out what the best option is for me. I'm going to talk to my GYN about it, but I thought I could start here first to give me some things to think about. I know that I always want...
by Peonies
Sat May 16, 2015 10:57 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Any gardeners out there?
Replies: 5
Views: 4225

Re: Any gardeners out there?

Me too! In fact, just this past weekend, there was a plant sale to benefit one of the schools on the island where I live and I got the most major haul for peanuts! Eight tomato plants, four tomatillos, three cukes, four arugula, two lettuces, eight kales and two oreganos all for $40! I remain might...
by Peonies
Tue May 12, 2015 6:46 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Any gardeners out there?
Replies: 5
Views: 4225

Any gardeners out there?

I just got all my vegetables planted this year and I'm super excited to go out and grab some fresh stuff when I make dinner! This is my third summer planting my own vegetables and I really enjoy it. I also love flowers as well. This year I am planting strawberries, zucchini, yellow squash, heirloom ...
by Peonies
Mon May 04, 2015 7:22 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Cycle Question
Replies: 2
Views: 2222

Re: Cycle Question

Ah! Thank you! I knew there was a q&a somewhere!
by Peonies
Sun May 03, 2015 9:58 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Cycle Question
Replies: 2
Views: 2222

Cycle Question

First off, hello Scarleteen! I have something I am confused about and thought you could clear it up. During my last combined bcp pack I took 2 pills 9 hours late (within the 12 hour window but 9 hours after my usual 10pm time). These pills are not technically considered late correct? If I were to ta...
by Peonies
Thu Feb 19, 2015 5:53 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: You're not afraid anymore! Wahoo!
Replies: 3
Views: 3586

Re: You're not afraid anymore! Wahoo!

Thanks for posting this, Heather. I really needed this! I have dealt an irrational fear of terminal illness for a few years now off an on. My biggest fear is cancer, mostly due to the fact that I watched my mom suffer through cancer (she is a survivor and is doing wonderful!). I've thought I've had ...
by Peonies
Sun Dec 07, 2014 11:52 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What's going on, Scarleteen?
Replies: 11
Views: 7029

Re: What's going on, Scarleteen?

I love this thread! Because of illness struggles, I have not traveled very much this year, but Friday, and heading to Minneapolis for a few days to see my people I miss from when I lived there. And to freeze to death, which I do NOT miss. :) But the best part is that (probably for the last time, be...
by Peonies
Sun Dec 07, 2014 11:49 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What's going on, Scarleteen?
Replies: 11
Views: 7029

Re: What's going on, Scarleteen?

I've managed to start proper counselling, as in face to face, therapy!! not a crisis line :) I know this will be a relief to many of you volunteers here at scarleteen haha ;) I already feel so positive, and finally feel a sense of inner peace I haven't known for a very long time. Thankyou to all of...
by Peonies
Sun Dec 07, 2014 11:48 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What's going on, Scarleteen?
Replies: 11
Views: 7029

Re: What's going on, Scarleteen?

Mo wrote:Glad to hear you're doing better, craftykid! :D
Thank you! :)
by Peonies
Sun Dec 07, 2014 11:43 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What's going on, Scarleteen?
Replies: 11
Views: 7029

Re: What's going on, Scarleteen?

For me its exam season. Classes ended yesterday and I'm starting to study. Its a really great feeling though, because last time exams came around d I was in the depths of depression and didn't even know what was wrong. So to be going into exams with good grades and actually be capable of studying i...
by Peonies
Tue Dec 02, 2014 12:36 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Hi Everyone!
Replies: 7
Views: 4084

Re: Hi Everyone!

Welcome :D