Thank you so much!! I’ll definitely give that article a read

Almost all of my close friends fall somewhere in the LGBTQ+ spectrum which is nice but I think they get tired of hearing me complain about it (which is valid! they’re not my therapist). I might try and start up counselling again because it’s making me resent them and damaging my relationship with th...

I recently came out as bisexual and everyone has been pretty accepting which I’m super thankful for! But I’ve had quite a few people doubt my bisexuality, especially my parents. They don’t think I’m “actually bisexual” because I’ve never had sex with a girl. This is super frustrating because while t...

Hey I just wanted to once again thank you guys I actually just came out to everyone! I figured the first day of pride was pretty fitting! you really helped me understand and validate what I was feeling and I can’t thank you enough!

Hey Sam! Thanks so much! You always know exactly what to say to make me feel better. I really want to thank you guys for being here for me! I’ll check that article out

hey guys! so recently I’ve found myself questioning my sexuality a lot. I’ve always found both genders attractive and was very keen to experiment. I’ve kissed a few girls before and it’s felt good. But they’ve mainly been at parties where they’ll laugh it off so I always shrug it off as well. I’m no...

Hey! As of last time we talked I had spoken about how I was feeling regarding dates and you guys suggested taking time on my own (which I have!) and I’ve started masturbating with my vibrator again which is amazing but I was wondering if you could achieve those “leg shaking” orgasms solo or only fro...

Thank you so much for your kind and reassuring words 0PT1M15T1C! You’re completely right Heather. I honestly don’t think I want to date anyone right now. I have a date scheduled for Saturday but I’ve been dreading it so I am just going to cancel it. I would love to hear more about the ways you sugge...

Hi Sam & Heather! Yes it’s only been happening after the breakup. I used to get the regular nerves/butterflies but this is a lot worse. Honestly the thought of doing anything intimate or remotely sexual always triggers this response but sometimes even if someone tries to talk to me I’ll get that...

Hi Heather! Thank you so much for your kind reply, I would really appreciate if you could help me get out of this negative headspace. I was actually going to make another post because it’s gotten so bad that even interacting with boys will physically make me sick. I tried going on a date with someon...

I know the title seems contradictory but I can’t think of a better way to phrase it. I am horny and want that release so I’ll masturbate but even when I orgasm it’s almost as if it’s a letdown? I used to feel amazing after having an orgasm and now I feel like it’s just not doing it for me. It’s almo...

Sometimes after I masturbate the next day out of nowhere I’ll get like a mini orgasm? I guess it’s just the contraction of Vaginal muscles but it kind of feels similar to an orgasm just not as powerful. I don’t even have to be thinking about sex or anything - sometimes just when I move like crossing...

Ahaha I’m glad I could brighten your day with my username! As always, you’re completely right! I’m just going to be honest and communicate my wants and needs with any potential partners - if they can’t do that then they’re not the one for me. I’ll be sure to read the articles you linked. Thanks so m...

I am curious to the idea of having a friends with benefits sexual relationship but I’m kind of worried my expectations don’t fit inside that category. When I talked to someone else about it, they had mentioned how they had a fwb but they were monogamous to that one person, a relationship just never ...

We haven’t had the occasion to talk about it since it happened - but we talked about it right after and he said he enjoyed it! I just had some anxieties that you’ve helped to ease, so thank you!

so I’ve recently had sex for the first time and I was wondering how long do guys typically last on average? My partner said he “hadn’t done this in a while” and the actual penetrative sex lasted maybe about 3 minutes? I know this is kind of silly to ask but wouldn’t he orgasm quicker since it’s been...

Okay so just a washcloth with water. Thank you!

How do I properly wash my vagina/vulva? Especially in a shower? I used to have a bath and would just “swoosh” water down there but am finding it difficult to do that in the shower, any tips?

Okay sweet! Thank you so much

I’ve been wondering about this for a while now, but what is the correct term for getting turned on knowing that your partner is enjoying themselves/getting turned on from you? Someone suggested voyeurism but it’s not getting turned on by the thought of seeing your partner with someone else, just see...

That does make a lot of sense thank you! Blame wasn’t the right word to use here. I just had figured that from my friends personal experiences with sex and their first time that they weren’t quite ready. They’ve all said they wished that they waited a little longer so that’s where that assumption ca...

Hey guys I recently went and bought my first ever vibrator (whoop whoop!). I tried to use it last night but it hurt when I tried to put it in? I was definitely aroused as I was reading erotic stories and watching porn beforehand! I talked to my friends about it and they suggested lube. I thought sin...

You’re completely right. If we can’t talk openly about sexual health then we shouldn’t be having sex. How long does it take to get tested? Will the results come in a matter of days, weeks or months?

That does make a lot of sense. I’m just worried I might get caught up in the moment? If they “seem” clean, like no visible STI’s, and we have sex is there a lesser chance of catching something?

Hey guys I was just wondering what would be the best way to bring up or initiate a conversation about your potential partners sexual health. I was thinking that if I were to become sexually active I’d most likely start with oral sex first. I know you can still catch STI’s from that so do you think I...