Thank you both! It's been going great so far. I actually just recently met their girlfriend and it was a lot less weird than I thought it would be. As I continue to know this friend more as a person, I find myself caring for them more deeply, but I still don't feel like I need to date them to be hap...

Thank you! I have read that article, but it was a while ago so the refresher was nice. It does cover a lot of my concerns; I think a lot of my emotions are coming from the common myths and stereotypes about casual sex. After having this false overall narrative of causal sex (one where it is never in...

Hi Sam! First off, thank you for the validation! I really appreciate it. Knowing that others are seeing my situation in a similar, but significantly more objective perspective is very helpful. As for how "catching feelings" is being defined, it's a bit of a grey area for me so far! From wh...

this is so sweet! Glad I'm finally taking a chance to browse through these forums. -I'm involved in a really great tabletop rpg campaign (a few actually) and I can't wait to play again this week. -being able to wear layers now that it's cooler out! Yay to big sweaters and jackets and scarves. -I hav...

Hi. Long time user of scarletteen's resources, but this is the first time I'm using these forums. I need some advice. As of literally last week, I've found myself in my first casual sexual relationship ever with a friend I made about a month ago, and I'm both excited and terrified. I've been attract...