Yes, this is the same partner I posted about before. I'd say those big things have been largely resolved or at least managed--psychiatric medications have helped a lot with that for both of us. I still get anxiety, like I'm feeling now about all this, but it's much less than it used to be in years p...

Hi Heather, Nope, I have no problems orgasming when I masturbate with my partner. Although, even then, sometimes my fantasies wander and I don't like that much. I prefer to be in the moment with my partner, but my brain is a very active one. And no, I've come from their touch without fantasizing abo...

So, I know not being able to orgasm during partnered sex is a very, very common topic on here, but I feel like my case is a bit different in that I know what works for me during masturbation and can almost always get off. However, it's still hard to orgasm during sex with my partner (which I mean ma...

So... I've had this dilemma for a long time. I've identified as bisexual for years, but after I came out my attractions to men diminished, so much so that within the past year I had begun wondering if I were a lesbian (if perhaps a gray-area lesbian). I just didn't have any crushes on guys really, e...

Just as an update: I talked to her about this, and she was totally fine with it. Sometimes I still feel like I have a sense of responsibility because of her depression and anxiety and don't want her to feel alone even though I know I shouldn't feel that way, but she acknowledged that it could be rou...

Hi Jacob,

Thank you for replying. Yes.... how would you suggest that I approach this with her while sounding tactful?

Hello all, I'm in a new relationship, but I'm a definite introvert and need at least some uninterrupted time alone each day to have my own thoughts, otherwise I feel like I'm driven up the wall. I love my girlfriend, but we've been communicating on average 6-8 hours a day, and it's starting to get t...