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by helpneeded
Thu Jan 14, 2016 6:38 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

Re: what is he thinking

I kinda of already do all those things and it definitely helps. The only time I feel hopeless is when I feel like I'm back at square one. But something happened at work today where I felt like he completely didn't acknowledge my presence and this really got me upset because to me it made me feel lik...
by helpneeded
Thu Jan 14, 2016 7:36 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

Re: what is he thinking

Hello, All the things you mentioned are true, I know that I'm mourning the lost of what could've been rather than what was and I have honestly tried so many times to process the feelings but no avail. I accepted that I feel a certain way but I don't have the luxury to feel them because I have to go ...
by helpneeded
Wed Jan 13, 2016 7:20 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

Re: what is he thinking

So I'm back again. It's been a couple of days since my last post but I keep going through this cycle where I'm over the situation then I'm not. I've tried to talk to my sister and close friends about it and while they have all been very helpful I hate bombarding them with my issues. Even though they...
by helpneeded
Thu Jan 07, 2016 8:21 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

Re: what is he thinking

Thank you guys. And you are completely right Heather and I guess there is a first time for everything. I have a list of mistakes I know that I made and while I feel embarrassed that I've made them because I'm usually a more cautious person I know I'm human. I did decide to dive head first into this ...
by helpneeded
Thu Jan 07, 2016 7:38 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

Re: what is he thinking

Like part of me is maybe hoping that there is another reason besides the celibate thing; maybe miscommunication or maybe he's afraid that I'll reject him or something. What ever the reason maybe I just want to know so that I can shut down whatever part of me is thinking that there may be another exp...
by helpneeded
Wed Jan 06, 2016 7:35 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

Re: what is he thinking

so we are back at work now. And for the past two days its been a very dry Hi, how are you sort of greeting in passing. I didn't have the courage to text him so I just let it rock. Now that we are back, still no text from him either. At this point I can tell it's over because I can't phantom why he'd...
by helpneeded
Wed Dec 30, 2015 6:07 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

Re: what is he thinking

I haven't reached out either mainly because I initiated the texting that evening after we chatted at work for a bit. I don't want to say anything in fear of me coming off as desperate. Also i feel as if he still likes me like he claimed initially then he should be interested in how I have been doing.
by helpneeded
Wed Dec 30, 2015 2:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is he thinking
Replies: 16
Views: 4400

what is he thinking

So I've found myself in a kinda of sticky situation. There is this guy at work that I've been watching for a couple of weeks. I'd seen him around on several different occasions but never said anything to him, I just kept thinking to myself that he's cute. One day out of the blue we get to talking an...
by helpneeded
Sat Nov 15, 2014 9:33 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Exploration with cousin as kid
Replies: 1
Views: 12164

Exploration with cousin as kid

So I've been thinking lately about my childhood and trying to figure out why I am always thinking about sex even though I am 21 and have never had sex. I have always been very interested in it ever since I was a kid. Me (female) and my cousin (male) used to fool around, I can't really quite remember...