Hey Heather! I kinda understand what you are saying about the message about sex being bad - I admit to being kinda frustrated when sitting in church and knowing everyone would condemn us for the little we are doing while they go home and do even more. I know for them it is more about our age or that...

Dang! It makes sense the way you explain things - it is like I read it and think - Duhh, I should have known that! I have only seen one vulva in real life and others in pictures and there is lots of differences. Guess it is the same for guys - penises are different too. I like that Kim's is "ne...

Thanks Mo, I understand about communication. We can talk about most things anytime. We both seem kinda awkward talking about sex stuff unless we are kinda involved in "the moment". Maybe because of our strict families? Like there are words we wouldn't use around each other just sitting aro...

Hi Heather - thank you for getting back to me so fast. She doesn't make me feel bad- just something i kinda feel but thanks for saying what you did. I think both of us have not had great sex ed. Most of mine is from guys I work with or the internet. When i first heard about a guy giving a girl oral,...

Hi - you guys helped me on another topic a while back - i really appreciate it! I got another question - me and my gf have started making out. We talked and both agree that we won't cross the line to full sex yet. For a while we just would touch each other and explore with our hands - that led us to...

Hi Sam - our family is very religious and I still don't know how to work and balance things out. I bounce from "I am horny and don't care" to having serious guilt feelings. Our home is very modest and "proper". I have a friend from church that seems like his home is lots more lai...

Not with parents at all. Mostly with friends. Current gf has done some stuff and we are talking about moving further with physical stuff.

Thanks for the quick answer. I can do that and it is a relief that the doctor doesn't have to tell. I'd be less nervous to know kinda what to expect in the exam. I know you guys aren't doctors and prob don't know for sure. Would be easier if it was just like him asking me questions rather than the p...

I don't mind calling the doctor but I don't know if they would see me without my parent's OK first. I would pay the co-pay if they would. My parents are just really conservative and religious. They think masturbating is wrong I'd have to admit I do it because this is when it happens. Dad said wet dr...

Hi - thanks for answering. Before school started this year I did get a sports physical and the doctor did check me there. I would have to ask my parents to get a me a doctor's appointment and that would mean explaining things to them and then talking to him about it - not sure I want to go through a...

I am 16 and I think I think I am pretty normal with puberty and stuff. I try not to masterbate too much but I been noticing when i do and whether I do it fast or take my time, when I finish my sack gets tight and my testicles pull up inside my body for a while. Usually things relax and goes back to ...